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How long could you stay in a sexless relationship/ marriage?

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Before you couldn't take it anymore and decided to leave?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:47 AM
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smushy79
by Gold Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:31 AM

It would completely depend on why it was sexless. If it were due to an injury or medical condition, I would never leave. If it was due to relationship issues, then who knows...

April620
by Platinum Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:32 AM
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For better or worse, til death do us part
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Eyelashes23
by Silver Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:33 AM
If he's sick or just aging then no I wouldn't leave him if he's a good man otherwise but if he's addicted to porn or just doesn't love me anymore then yes, I would leave n wouldn't put up with that
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Luna091306
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:35 AM

 I stayed 3 years....well really only the last year was nearly completely sexless. We had a lot of other issues as well. We were no more than roommates that had sex every couple of months. I was miserable and found every excuse I could to get out of the house. I worked hard to mend the relationship in the beginning but after pleading and pleading that we go to counseling or try to make things better I finally gave up. I always say the relationship was over far before I actually left. I have never had one regret nor did I shed one tear after we split up.  

Luna091306
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:36 AM

 That was my ex's issue.

Quoting Eyelashes23:

If he's sick or just aging then no I wouldn't leave him if he's a good man otherwise but if he's addicted to porn or just doesn't love me anymore then yes, I would leave n wouldn't put up with that

 

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Mcelly
by Gold Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:40 AM
If sex was the only problem I would stay.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:40 AM

That would be very hard :(

purpleducky
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:43 AM

If my wife can put up with my issues then I could put up with no sex if I had to.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:46 AM

Well so far I've been married 13 years, and the past 2 of it has been sexless. I couldn't take it after a couple of months, but I'm still here, because my children are more important than my need for intimacy. I can't imagine leaving anytime soon, but I am frustrated a lot.

Matriarch87
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:47 AM

Meh I do not know, have never gone a significant period of time without so I have no clue how it would effect me.  

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