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How long could you stay in a sexless relationship/ marriage?

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Before you couldn't take it anymore and decided to leave?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:47 AM
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April620
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:47 AM
Really?

Quoting Elle.tea.22:

If it was for a medical reason, a month. 

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MamaC.
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:48 AM
Forever
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Eyelashes23
by Silver Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:48 AM
Yea it seems a lot of men have this problem. I couldn't put up with it either


Quoting Luna091306:

 That was my ex's issue.


Quoting Eyelashes23:

If he's sick or just aging then no I wouldn't leave him if he's a good man otherwise but if he's addicted to porn or just doesn't love me anymore then yes, I would leave n wouldn't put up with that

 


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ZanderandBella
by Bronze Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:49 AM

If my spouse is perfectly healthy, then I would take it as he is no longer attracted to or in love with me and I wouldn't want to stay in a loveless marriage.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 18 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:49 AM
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Sex is NOT "everything".   My goodness- just ask the thrill seekers, the motocross dudes, the rock climbers, the surfers, base jumpers,  what would YOU rather give up?  LOL ask a fattie- sex or food? Choose? My house is on those would choose food!

Music! Art, culture, literature... travel, expanding your mind, do you think einstein or Steven Hawkins thought life would not be worth living without sex??????????????????? 

I listened to an interview with a most favorite musician and he did bring up that music was "everything" to him...and it made it hard on his marriage- he actually said- love is great, sex is fine- but what is that- you spend a half hour to an hour on it, it is messy... then it's over.. why, we all sit around ALL NIGHT jamming.. that's where it's at!

If you want to leave over sex, you should examine everything.... you probably have NO relationship with your partner, no real connection.

LOTS of men can't have sex anymore due to things like diabetes, who knows what else- you don't see a wife who loves them leaving for that reason!!!!!!!!!

And mankind invented batteries!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(BEG)  Love him, take care of yourself.  Find the emotional and spiritual connection with him- IF there is no physical problem or emotional trauma there, you just MIGHT find sex is there!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 19 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:50 AM

Probably forever, if everything else was good. I can do sex by myself.

GagaNTattooS
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:50 AM
In it now for the most part we have sex maybe once every 3 months or so. It doesn't bother me one bit
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 20 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:51 AM

I feel the same! Its about a personal passionate love connection ya know? Its not "Just sex" to me, its more than that.

Quoting Anonymous:

We have had sex maybe 10 times or so in the past two years.

If it doesn't change, I will leave.

I've tried everything, seduction, communication and he says he still wants me but gives me all these excuses. I know he's not cheating.

I just I have to have that intimacy. Once a week I'd be happy.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 19 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:52 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

Sex is NOT "everything".   My goodness- just ask the thrill seekers, the motocross dudes, the rock climbers, the surfers, base jumpers,  what would YOU rather give up?  LOL ask a fattie- sex or food? Choose? My house is on those would choose food!

Music! Art, culture, literature... travel, expanding your mind, do you think einstein or Steven Hawkins thought life would not be worth living without sex??????????????????? 

Go read up on Einstein. The man was a SLUT. Cheated on all of his wives and wrote blisteringly graphic love letters to women. He was a rock star at the time and he loved his groupies.

Melissa_4
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 10:53 AM
It depends on the reason and the arrangement. If he's a cold fish, ie no affection towards me whatsoever, then I'd have to leave.
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