It said, "You were supposed to start paying child support in August. You are already $4500 behind and you haven't even contacted the payment center. If I haven't heard from you by Monday, I am going to contact the state and the military to start proceedings against you."
My youngest son has been so disappointed by his dad lately. I have been getting lots of stuff in the mail for the baby. His dad "promised" to send him a special gift once he got to Korea. He has barely called our kids and has sent them nothing for the last 2.5 years. He isn't going to send anything. Every time my son sees a package in the mail, he thinks it is something for him from his dad. It is heartbreaking. I don't have the heart to tell him it isn't ever going to happen though.