I gave him an ultimatum *what he said* **2nd UPDATE**
Well i found out my husband was cheating and for the kids i agreed to try and work on our relationship and see if it can be selvaged.
I gave him an ultimatum tho (because of the trust issue) I told him he could either give me his password and relinquish his privacy (until he starts earning it back) or He can watch me walk out the door and out of his life.
(its not that i actually care about going through his stuff, I more wanted to see if he was willing to open up completely and not hide anything from me anymore)
What he said: as of right now he hasnt given me an answer on what he wants to do. hes at work at the moment. When i told him about the ultimatum he says im not hiding anything i told u everything so i dont see why u need the passwords.
*UPDATE* : Its 8:10pm here and my husband work closed at 6pm but hes still not home ... hope he doesnt plan on the doors being open! Plus we only live 10mins from his work.
**2nd UPDATE** well he got home at 8:46pm its now 1:04am When he got home we gave our kids baths and put them to bed so we could talk. He has relinquished all password and since our phone contract is up next week he wants us to get new #'s. Plus he wants to go to marriage counseling so we are looking at people to see starting monday.
PS: he was at his mothers talking to her and telling her how bad he fucked up and how he couldnt live without me or the kids. Hopefully all this will help and save our marriage.