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Did anyone else's stuff get messed up "down there" from a vaginal birth?

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Just curious because the area on the inside, on the right side now hangs lower by like a half an inch than the other. (Not the lip but not sure of the actual name). I don't know if this is common or not but its annoying and ugly :( I don't know if I just had a bad experience or what. (I had my son almost four years ago btw)
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 7:52 PM
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rawrmommysaurus
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:08 PM

I have stretch marks from my oldest DS down there.  How ever the shape is still the same.

When DS was born the first thing out of the Dr's mouth wasn't, 'its a boy,' it was 'WOW!  Look at how big his head is!'  LOL 

Mom2five87
by Gold Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:08 PM

O..m...g. That sounds so painful.

Quoting Anonymous:

my oldest - cut hole to hole. my middle i RIPPED UP my CLIT. my youngest? nothing....its different, but not severe enough to make a difference sexualy...


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Pnukey
by Jenn on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:08 PM

I had a real blow out down there, so the doc had to stitch everything back into place. 

Quatrekins
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 PM

I have scarring... My inner labia was always bigger on the one side, but I always thought vaginas were pretty unattractive to begin with. Like a PP said, at first I was self-conscious, but I've grown to not care anymore :)

mariesmama
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 PM
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 i had an epesiotomy and now whenn i gotta potty i cant hold it  #1or#2

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:09 PM
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stitches in my clit? nah..it felt great..lololol....

Quoting Mom2five87:

O..m...g. That sounds so painful.

Quoting Anonymous:

my oldest - cut hole to hole. my middle i RIPPED UP my CLIT. my youngest? nothing....its different, but not severe enough to make a difference sexualy...



Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:10 PM
That makes me want to cry for you :(


Quoting Anonymous:

stitches in my clit? nah..it felt great..lololol....


Quoting Mom2five87:

O..m...g. That sounds so painful.

Quoting Anonymous:

my oldest - cut hole to hole. my middle i RIPPED UP my CLIT. my youngest? nothing....its different, but not severe enough to make a difference sexualy...




Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:11 PM
Yes. The inner labia on the left is slightly longer now. And I am about to mess it up more with baby number 2 coming :(
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:12 PM
I was having that problem for about a year, and kegels really helped, I almost never leak now.


Quoting mariesmama:

 i had an epesiotomy and now whenn i gotta potty i cant hold it  #1or#2


Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:14 PM

Yeah, I'm sorry, too. That just wasn't right to treat you like that. :(

Quoting Anonymous:

Sorry you had a bad experience :(


Quoting Anonymous:

No, they didnt offer : / we were having hard times and I was on Medicaid briefly, I'm sure they just didnt care. I also had an infection and fever and asked for a blanket and it took 6 hours to bring it to me and to realize I was running a fever .



Quoting Anonymous:

No, mine is ok. Did you have an episiotomy or anything?


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