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Mom's don't have the right!

Anonymous
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It really bothers me that moms now-a-days think that they have the right to keep a child away from their father because he's an "ass" or jerk or because they don't need him to help them raise the child. Well maybe their child needs their father, maybe they should be able to make the choice when they are older. It's not all about the mom. If she thinks the guy is such a jerk then she shouldn't have put out. Dad's matter. Kids need dads and it's not up to moms to decide that. Be civil don't say bad things about children's parents to them. 

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:29 PM
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EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:30 PM
Yeah. We get that.
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Pnukey
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:30 PM
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I agree. 

ALWsMomma
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:32 PM
My neices dad was in prison the first 6 years of her life. When he got out he busted the windows out of my sisters apartment and destroyed her car. 3 years later he is trying to get partial custody. He is an ass... should he be allowed around my neice?
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EAzizM
by Erica on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:32 PM
I concur. It is sad that some women let their hate for the father get in the way of them having a relationship with their kids. The ones who end up suffering are the kids.
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mom2the.rescue
by Platinum Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:32 PM
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I agree...but I think a lot of the times men do and say reeeeeallly stupid things...and I'm sure it can be super hard to allow a friggin' idiot to take care of your kid kwim?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:34 PM

If he physically threatens her, no.  But she should know her father.

Quoting ALWsMomma:

My neices dad was in prison the first 6 years of her life. When he got out he busted the windows out of my sisters apartment and destroyed her car. 3 years later he is trying to get partial custody. He is an ass... should he be allowed around my neice?


AnastasiaKorsh
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:35 PM
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Are you with someone who has a child from a previous relationship?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:36 PM

yea, but the idiot is still there father 

Quoting mom2the.rescue:

I agree...but I think a lot of the times men do and say reeeeeallly stupid things...and I'm sure it can be super hard to allow a friggin' idiot to take care of your kid kwim?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:36 PM

nope

Quoting AnastasiaKorsh:

Are you with someone who has a child from a previous relationship?


Dzyre1115
by Desiree` on Nov. 21, 2012 at 8:36 PM
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 Sometimes the consistency of him being gone, is better than the inconsistency of him being there when he wants.

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