my 4th abortion

[Anonymous]

Srry im on my phone......so i had my ds in 2011 april my dd in march 2012 and now shes almost 9 months and my period is almost a weeks late ..dh says if im pergnant i have to have an abortion or he leaving me ... if i am pregnant i want to keep the baby ...ive had 3 abortion before i had my kids .. and i think if did have another abortion i wouldent be able to mentally handle it ..

[Anonymous]

You can both rot in hell.

[MichelleSw]

WOW. I'm pro-choice, but damn lady... BC is your friend.... or possibly a hysterectomy

[ginger813]

I'm sorry, but people like you make me sick. LEARN TO USE BIRTH CONTROL!!!!!

[Anonymous]

Uhh..horrible situation. I'm sorry. Good luck.

[.Nobody.]

Oy

[Anonymous]

I was in a very similar situation. The marriage wasn't good and I knew we were probably heading for divorce when I found out I was pregnant. DH didn't come out as strongly as yours with an ultimatum, but when I told him, his response was "well what do you want to do?" 

I searched my soul and decided the baby was mine and I wanted to have her even if I had to raise her on my own.

We are divorced now, and my ex adores his little girl like you wouldn't believe!  DH may be overwhelmed right now. If you had an abortion because of this ultimatum, could you really respect and trust him the same way? 

[AnastasiaKorsh]

Well, that sucks. But again, if this is not something that you want to do, don't let him bully you into it.

Quoting Anonymous:

We did most of the time excecpt for 2times this month

Quoting AnastasiaKorsh:

Did you use condoms?

Quoting Anonymous:

Im dumb i dident want to go on because i wanted to lose all my pregnancy weight first ..before i started bc ..

Quoting Maria_Peanut:

Why aren't you on BC if he didn't want anymore kids?

[angelenia]

*hugs* mama. that must be a really stressful situation.

[Shelby212302]

Sounds about right. I'm not trying to be mean because I truly do believe you have been victimized, but he obviously preys on the fact you two have been together for awhile and from the beginning he has had the upper hand. Situations like this piss me off because I wish I could truly physically help you. Just to let you know when I was 16 my boyfriend was 23 and totally used my ignorance against me so I know what it's like.

Quoting Anonymous:

I was 14 when i met him he was 19

Quoting Shelby212302:

Sounds like he runs your life, is he older than you?

Quoting Anonymous:

Yea ive been with him since i was 14

Quoting Shelby212302:

Wow were the previous abortions his too?

[Meghan6391]

I would tell him to f.o

Quoting Anonymous:

Srry im on my phone......so i had my ds in 2011 april my dd in march 2012 and now shes almost 9 months and my period is almost a weeks late ..dh says if im pergnant i have to have an abortion or he leaving me ... if i am pregnant i want to keep the baby ...ive had 3 abortion before i had my kids .. and i think if did have another abortion i wouldent be able to mentally handle it ..