my 4th abortion

[Anonymous]

Srry im on my phone......so i had my ds in 2011 april my dd in march 2012 and now shes almost 9 months and my period is almost a weeks late ..dh says if im pergnant i have to have an abortion or he leaving me ... if i am pregnant i want to keep the baby ...ive had 3 abortion before i had my kids .. and i think if did have another abortion i wouldent be able to mentally handle it ..

[Anonymous]

[aCafemomma]

MY opinion if you want the kid have it, kick his good for nothing ass out and have him give up rights to all the kids since he doesn't want then and move on. (also a tubal and counseling )

[Anonymous]

I thank my lucky stars EVERY DAY that my DH would NEVER tell me to abort-EVER!! Even with our last baby, it was a very high-risk pregnancy! There was NO WAY I was going to abort! We have 5 children. After baby #5, I told DH I was DONE!! He went and got snipped 4 years ago!

Please don't let anyone bully you into doing something you do NOT want to do!! Good luck!!

[Sarah_Moore]

this. he's an a$$.

Quoting Fields456:

Me too if he feels like that he should have a vasectomy

Quoting babyboy117:

I would leave my husband just for giving me an ultimatem. he can care less about your feelings.

[lifehappy]

I have a hard time understanding accidental pregnancies.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Fyi my abortin were when i was under 16 i still lived with my parents and it was what they wanted .. once dh got a good job and i wad 17 i got pregnant with ds and i kept him and.i found out i was pregnant with my dd a month or 2 after had my son and kept her shes my primcess i love het more than anything.. ... i love my kids and we do provde them witj an extermley good life

Quoting MichelleSw:

WOW. I'm pro-choice, but damn lady... BC is your friend.... or possibly a hysterectomy

[mommieof3_752]

Then he is a worthless piece of shit. If he is going to leave you because you give birth to his child...then he doesnt deserve you.

[Anonymous]

I can accept 1 as a person's choice...But 3...that's using abortions as birth control and that I have trouble accepting...Sounds like you have found remorse over the first 3 but he just views it as birth control. "Meh-just have an abortion-I don't want another kid"

I feel for you two-bad bad life decisions.

[Anonymous]

By not using bc... Sounds like you wanted a baby. Sorry I dint buy the " I wanted to loose pregnancy weight" thing. He will be forcing you to get an abortion, just like the last three you had. I think you should have the baby and get someone fixed! BUT it's your body your choice!
Or your hubby's body and choice.

[Kaybean]

Wow, you've had 3 abortions already? My gosh. Anyway, if you are pregnant, let your DH leave. He sounds like a loser anyway for saying that to you. I would tell him he can equally blame HIMSELF for this and let him walk out the door. I would choose my baby over him.