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My super insensitive question. WARNING may offend.

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Question: If a woman has an abortion can she call the baby an "angel baby"?

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Yes

No

I have unkind words for you and I will place them in the comment section.


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If a woman has an abortion can she call the baby an "angel baby"?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:13 AM
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TattoodMommy19
by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:22 AM
Unkind words.
Placed accordingly.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:22 AM
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Speaking as someone who chose to have one a long time ago. Would i call it an "angel baby" ? No.

But am I heartless? No. It was a choice and I think back on that choice I made 20 years ago. I won't get into a theological debate-but if there is a soul then I pray that soul was returned to heaven. I made my peace and asked forgiveness-so please don't all jump on me for a decision I made when i was young.

1likeme
by Gold Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:23 AM
Yes. It was her baby.
lovinglife0682
by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:24 AM
I had a miscarriage and don't use that term, so I don't know.
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aCafemomma
by Bronze Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:25 AM
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Man this one is hard LOL

I personally believe that abortions should only be for those who have been raped, incest, and medical reasons that put the mom's, babies or both of their lives in danger.  So part of me wants to say if you murder your baby then no.

BUT then the part of me believes that every single baby that has been lost should be mourned and grieved over.

littlesmom3
by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:25 AM
I dont think she should since she willingly aborted. It may be insensitive to those who lost babies not by choice
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CheesyKitty
by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:26 AM
Not if it was a chosen abortion.
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luckystars2012
by Silver Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:28 AM
This. I recently had to terminate an ectopic pregnancy, and I VERY much wanted my angel baby.


Quoting winkyloafer:

I could understand if it was an ectopic pregnancy or something of the sort. Otherwise, no.

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sassybloomers88
by Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:29 AM
What if you were pregnant and you were under age and you wanted to keep the baby , but your mother forced you to terminate it.
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singlemama0905
by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 12:30 AM

 If you call that baby an angel baby....you'd be seeing that baby as a BABY...which means you killed the baby...which then makes you a murderer.

I can't really say yes or no - because PERSONALLY, I do feel like they are still "angel babies" they were stil created and stll died.  I believe abortion is murder and in order to call that child an "angel baby" you would have to believe the same...

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