Dd was born 8 months ago. I struggled with having sex for about 4 months after she was born, it was very painful. When we did start to have sex it was about 2-3 times a week and that dwindled down to about once a week. Over the past couple of months we have been going 2 weeks without having sex...my period is also messed up, it comes at random times (my bc screws it up) so that prevents us from doing it (I don't mind having sex on the rag but it screws it up even more if I do). I have just gotten used to not having sex. Dh works long hours and by the time he gets home he is tired...so he eats and goes to bed. We have been having sex on the weekends since he is home and rested...he wanted sex tonight and I'm just not into it...I'm not depressed, I just think I have gotten used to not doing it. I know having it more makes you want it more but that's just it, there's no time to have it more. So now he's irritated with me. I feel shitty but idk what to do about it.