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divorce or stay with him?

Posted by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:45 PM
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My husband and I got in a big fight Tuesday night he was pretty agressive.
It all started with me thinking he was checking this girl out at the store. He just looked at her.
So I got kinda upset and walked out the store.
I still try to play it off by saying it was hot in the store when he asked why I didn't wanted on him.
Then he started getting mad at me, talking crap to me saying what the f... its wrong with u.

till I said it. I was like I just seeing u looking at the cashier so I didn't wanted to bother.
He got so mad and got my hand and twisted bad till the point he was about to break it.
He was so mad and agressive infront of the kids, I tried to calm him down but he said I pissed him off.
He is always agressive I can't ever get mad for something otherwise he will hit me.
He is smart he won't punch my face but he does slap my face so he left the house that night went to he parents house.
Made me seen like a psycho with them and the jealouse one. Later on that night he text me asking if I really wanted to get divorce I didn't text back.
So I went thro he gmail account on google and seen he was on porn. With he favorite porn star. I don't know if he pays to have sex with her since he was on live web cam.
He knows I am not okay with porn specially that kind of stuff.
He knew next time I caught he was on that stuff I was gonna get divorce but he didn't care.
I don't know what to do.
I believe he can change, I don't want satan to just destroy my marriage but at the same time I can't keep living an unhappy life
He is not good at sex, he is agressive, and he is pretty much being unfaithful to me by doing that.
I don't know what I should do?
Should I keep trying and just try to keep putting god first in our life?
Or should I just leave and see what plans god has for me?
I just know satan trying really hard to get us divorce and don't want to let him win.
I just wish my husband will see that and care. Grow up a little bit more! Instead of running to he parents everytime we have a fight.
I guess it was my fault for getting jealouse.
But he is always agressive and I don't know if that will ever stop.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:47 PM

I would not be with somene who put their hands on me like that. 

Bknotnobody
by Gold Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:48 PM
Divorce why are you even asking us! Divorce divorce divorce!
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by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:51 PM

I wonder why sometimes I assume an op's writing is of a certian ethnicity.  Well, do what you've got to do!

DixieL
by Platinum Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:51 PM

No matter what you say or do, he should never lay his hands on you. With him being aggressive, I'm sorry that in my opinion I would leave him. I wouldn't stay with anyone who lays his hands on me. Good Luck in whatever you decide to do.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:53 PM

If you are asking then the answer is already there for you...divorce.

ErikaRobin
by Platinum Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:55 PM
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Yeah, that's Satan trying to break you up. 


Sure. 


Darn that Satan and his marriage meddling!

indymom72
by Silver Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 1:57 PM

Reread your post...your relationship is toxic and needs to end.  Think about it..your kids are watching this and will learn that this is acceptable behavior.  Good luck to you..

chalisa0
by Platinum Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 2:01 PM
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You don't want "Satan" to destroy your marriage???  Really?  It's not Satan.  It's your abusive husband and your jealousy.  You absolutely should get away from someone who is abusing you.  Without some serious intense therapy, he will only get more aggressive.  Get out.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 2:07 PM

First thing you should do? Learn basic spelling and grammar.

Second, you should get a restraining order and separate. There is no excuse for him to hit you, ever. He could be hitting your children, but they are too scared to tell you. If he isn't already, he eventually will.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 2:09 PM

I was thinking the same. thing. while reading this post (among others)

Quoting Anonymous:

I wonder why sometimes I assume an op's writing is of a certian ethnicity.  Well, do what you've got to do!


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