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I'm tired of reading posts of women who have MULTIPLE abortions!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Yes...this is another abortion post. If you are tired of reading these, I don't blame you...but I have to get this out. Feel free to skim over this post if abortion is upsetting for you. 

Okay...so I will admit that if I had accidentally gotten pregnant before I met my DH, I would have gotten an abortion. I know a lot about abortion and I think it's horrible, but I would not have wanted to bring a child into the world that I would in no way have been able to take care of. Yes I know that there are other options, but that is what I would have decided. 

So...I'm not judging others who have an abortion. 

But I am absolutly sickened by these women on CM claiming to have like FOUR abortions like it's nothing. 

Abortion is not a birth control option. Birth control is not that difficult to get right and there are soooooo many different kinds of options that at least one is bound to work for you. 

There should be a limit of two for abortions. Maybe if women realized that they couldn't just get an abortion after having unprotected sex, they would be more dilligent with their birth control or they would have to deal with the consequences of their actions. 

Seriously...what kind of a sick, heartless monster could have so many abortions?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 4:32 PM
Replies (41-50):
Jynnifer292
by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:40 PM

 So you want a rape victim to PROVE she was raped? Nothing like being victimized twice. Also, every time I read the whole "in cases of rape" bs I wonder if anyone considers how many INNOCENT men would be accused of rape becasue a woman was simply desperate to not be forced to carry a baby. How many lives would that ruin?

Quoting Anonymous:

You are right in that taking away women's rights is a very slipperly slope. In cases of maternal health, rape, or incest, I absolutly believe women should be able to have another abortion. But if women are just careless over and over again they need to be stopped. 

Quoting epoh:

I don't agree with setting limitations.

You have no idea as to the plethora of reasons women have multiple abortions.

When you start taking away one person's rights it leads to the removal of rights of others. It is a very slippery slope.


 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:41 PM

I don't understand multiple abortions, why in the world would anyone want to keep going through that?  However, it disturbs me in way I have a difficult time articulating that anyone is so concerend about what goes on in another woman's uterus.  Maybe it's just me but I have dozens of other things to worry about. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:41 PM
Want a cookie? Might I suggest one with shades of grey? The world isn't black and white.

Quoting notjstanothrmom:

No. One killing is not okay... but it IS legal and people do need them because they are stupid and somehow people still don't understand that sex when ovulating leads to babies.

The point is, if you MUST get an abortion then you better LEARN from that experience and protect yourself.

I had an unplanned pregnancy. I kept my son because I don't agree with abortion. But you BET your ass that I don't have unplanned pregnancies. I've been with the same person for 7 years and I don't use birth control AND I've gotten pregnant EVERY time that I've given myself the chance. It's called being smart and using natural family planning. I LEARNED my lesson.

Quoting Ireallydontcare:

So one killing is okay, but more than one isn't? Your opinion is fucked up.


notjstanothrmom
by Ruby Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:42 PM

I'm sorry you're butt hurt because you can't grasp the concept of contraceptive and need to go around getting abortions or supporting stupid people who can't grasp the concept.

Quoting Anonymous:

Want a cookie? Might I suggest one with shades of grey? The world isn't black and white.

Quoting notjstanothrmom:

No. One killing is not okay... but it IS legal and people do need them because they are stupid and somehow people still don't understand that sex when ovulating leads to babies.

The point is, if you MUST get an abortion then you better LEARN from that experience and protect yourself.

I had an unplanned pregnancy. I kept my son because I don't agree with abortion. But you BET your ass that I don't have unplanned pregnancies. I've been with the same person for 7 years and I don't use birth control AND I've gotten pregnant EVERY time that I've given myself the chance. It's called being smart and using natural family planning. I LEARNED my lesson.

Quoting Ireallydontcare:

So one killing is okay, but more than one isn't? Your opinion is fucked up.



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:44 PM

 Someone call the waaaaaaahmbulance!

Get over what it, lady. It's still just your opinion. Who is butthurt? You're the one throwing the adult sized temper tantrum over shit you can't control. LOL

Quoting notjstanothrmom:

I'm sorry you're butt hurt because you can't grasp the concept of contraceptive and need to go around getting abortions or supporting stupid people who can't grasp the concept.

Quoting Anonymous:

Want a cookie? Might I suggest one with shades of grey? The world isn't black and white.

Quoting notjstanothrmom:

No. One killing is not okay... but it IS legal and people do need them because they are stupid and somehow people still don't understand that sex when ovulating leads to babies.

The point is, if you MUST get an abortion then you better LEARN from that experience and protect yourself.

I had an unplanned pregnancy. I kept my son because I don't agree with abortion. But you BET your ass that I don't have unplanned pregnancies. I've been with the same person for 7 years and I don't use birth control AND I've gotten pregnant EVERY time that I've given myself the chance. It's called being smart and using natural family planning. I LEARNED my lesson.

Quoting Ireallydontcare:

So one killing is okay, but more than one isn't? Your opinion is fucked up.



 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:45 PM
You are a special one, aren't you?

Tell me, how exactly does a complete stranger getting an abortion affect your life in ANY way?

Quoting notjstanothrmom:

I'm sorry you're butt hurt because you can't grasp the concept of contraceptive and need to go around getting abortions or supporting stupid people who can't grasp the concept.

Quoting Anonymous:

Want a cookie? Might I suggest one with shades of grey? The world isn't black and white.



Quoting notjstanothrmom:

No. One killing is not okay... but it IS legal and people do need them because they are stupid and somehow people still don't understand that sex when ovulating leads to babies.

The point is, if you MUST get an abortion then you better LEARN from that experience and protect yourself.

I had an unplanned pregnancy. I kept my son because I don't agree with abortion. But you BET your ass that I don't have unplanned pregnancies. I've been with the same person for 7 years and I don't use birth control AND I've gotten pregnant EVERY time that I've given myself the chance. It's called being smart and using natural family planning. I LEARNED my lesson.

Quoting Ireallydontcare:

So one killing is okay, but more than one isn't? Your opinion is fucked up.



randi1978
by Murdoc's Mistress on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:46 PM
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How is it that one is okay, but more than that is bad?  And you admit that you'd get an abortion if you ever felt the need, so your overall post makes no sense.  You can't give a green light over one but cry foul if a woman has more than that. 

I don't care how many a woman has had.  Not my business. 

brittney28
by Brittney on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:46 PM
I agree!
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AVSpecWife4
by Ruby Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:47 PM

 agreed!

Quoting randi1978:

How is it that one is okay, but more than that is bad?  And you admit that you'd get an abortion if you ever felt the need, so your overall post makes no sense.  You can't give a green light over one but cry foul if a woman has more than that. 

I don't care how many a woman has had.  Not my business. 

 

notjstanothrmom
by Ruby Member on Nov. 22, 2012 at 10:48 PM

Says anon...

Anyways, this post is saying THEORETICALLY that is how it SHOULD be. I agree. There SHOULD be a limit on abortions and I WOULD go to the polls and vote for that.

Here is a definition just in case:


the·o·ret·i·cal  (th-rt-kl) also the·o·ret·ic (-rtk)

adj.
1. Of, relating to, or based on theory.
2. Restricted to theory; not practical: theoretical physics.
3. Given to theorizing; speculative.
Quoting Anonymous:

 Someone call the waaaaaaahmbulance!

Get over what it, lady. It's still just your opinion. Who is butthurt? You're the one throwing the adult sized temper tantrum over shit you can't control. LOL

Quoting notjstanothrmom:

I'm sorry you're butt hurt because you can't grasp the concept of contraceptive and need to go around getting abortions or supporting stupid people who can't grasp the concept.

Quoting Anonymous:

Want a cookie? Might I suggest one with shades of grey? The world isn't black and white.

Quoting notjstanothrmom:

No. One killing is not okay... but it IS legal and people do need them because they are stupid and somehow people still don't understand that sex when ovulating leads to babies.

The point is, if you MUST get an abortion then you better LEARN from that experience and protect yourself.

I had an unplanned pregnancy. I kept my son because I don't agree with abortion. But you BET your ass that I don't have unplanned pregnancies. I've been with the same person for 7 years and I don't use birth control AND I've gotten pregnant EVERY time that I've given myself the chance. It's called being smart and using natural family planning. I LEARNED my lesson.

Quoting Ireallydontcare:

So one killing is okay, but more than one isn't? Your opinion is fucked up.



 


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