Idk if dd is just insanely independent or what... But at my moms for lunch today my cousin was spoon feeding her almost thee yr old. If I spoon fed dd (3yr) she would throw a huge fit. She hasn't let me feed her since she was like 8 mos old. Then at my dads family for Christmas my.other 3yr old cousin was still using a sippy cup. Dd won't even touch one, if I try to give her one she says no big girl cup. Neither one of these loss have any disorders or anyhign, perfectly normal children.
Ok I'm really not judging. Just more asking if this is normal for a three yr old or not?