I took mine off too. Told him when I put it back on it would be a sign that we were healing and that I was feeling connected again. That was 2007, and it's still off.
I very rarely remember to wear mine anymore since I can't wear it at work. That and I've lost so much weight since we got married that it doesn't fit well anymore :( and we can't afford to have it resized right now. DH also cannot wear his ring to work so he rarely wears his either. We are okay with it since neither one of us is big on jewelry.
Did he notice?
yeah i we don't have any rings and we are happy. eh