First off warning ive been drinking im a lil drunk and need to vent. Im lost.....im confused....im pissed! I want to get on some form of birth control. Well boyfriend is against it competly. He thinks it alters a womans body too muchh and too many bad side a ffects and its agaisnt gods wishes. I want an iud the non hormonal kind. Ive tried exsplaining it to him its the best one that wont do any damadge to my body. He still wont go for it. Hes going to leave if i get on borth control. "The pull out method has worked these past few years why stop now". I was bc because i want a baby so bad. but i also want to be married and have a baby or pregnant by this time next year, he said until i get ride of my attitude the only thing id get from him is a blow job. Ive known him for 8 years dated for a long time and why do i want a house with him or get my life started with him when he says i have a bad attitude and wont recognize his own ugh! Im thinking bout just telling him to fuck off you know! I want my life!