I hope that no one gets offended but there's always that one, or few, that will. When I was a child, I was molested by an older man. That is some of the reason I'm so screwed up in the brain when it comes to men. This man wasn't the same race as me and he was a friend of the family. I find men of his race attractive and a handful of times am also attracted to them but I could never seriously date or have sex with someone of that race. At first I thought it was because I just didn't like them but that's not true because I find plenty of them attractive. After thinking about it, I think he is the reason I have that block. Does this make any kidn of sense, at all?