Have you ever been in a relationship where it has become so much a part of you tht when its over, you feel like you've lost your identity. That's where I am right now. I've been struggling to realize this for over a year now. The only thing I know about is being a mom but even that is questionable. I take care of the neccesities and that's about it. I don't even have a personality anymore. I try to put one together but I always always find myself trying to get back to who I was with him. This is why I know I'll never be the same. I think I'm permanantly damaged by that relationship and the pain of it. I don't even like thinking about other people (new relationships). I'm always comparing things to him. I have to wonder if anyone else out there has been this damaged by something like this.