This isn't really a question, more of just acknowledging something I've noticed both on CafeMom and with some of the couples around me. I'm surpised (maybe a bit naive too) at how many grown men are obsessed with 'gaming' and even worse women that are with these men, then complain that they spend hours playing whatever their game of choice is! I'm 26 years old, my husband is 28 and we are expecting our first child here in the near future, We have a Wii, but the poor little thing has just collected dust over the past 8 months and was maybe used once a week before that (typically we were playing Mario Kart together). I guess I just can't imagine my husband being home at the same time that I am and making the choice to not do something together, but rather spend 3 hours playing a game. It also would NEVER fly in our home if he chose video games over our child ... or anything else for that matter. I bet you can already guess that there won't be a lot of video game usage by our children either :) I say grow up little boys and ladies that married or are in a relationship with those 'gamers', you signed up for it and probably let it slide for far too long so stop your complaining!