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I'm thinking of telling him to go find someone else

Anonymous
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My husband and I have no connection between the two of us anymore. After having our second kid he finds me to be unattractive and there is nothing there. He wants a boy yet he can't even look at me. I'm honestly ok with that bc I can't stand how I look either. I seriously haven't even looked in the mirror in about 4 months. I even brush my teeth with my eyes closed.

He is from a broken home and he refuses to let our kids go through that. I am thinking of telling him he can venture out as long as he doesn't bring anyone/anything home. I know that he already has girls in the back of his head on who he could/would go after. And no, no troll I'm dead serious. I honestly feel this is the best thing for me to do
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:30 PM
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3.ang3ls
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:32 PM
That's sad. I'm sorry.
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Gemma06
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:36 PM
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I can't come up with a solution to your problem as I've never experienced anything like this...but good luck!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:37 PM
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Well I know your worth more than being someones door mat. Its your life and your choice.
gmadiane
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:38 PM

thats very sad, hugs

Fistandantalus
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:39 PM
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Wouldn't it be better for you guys to try and reconnect?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:41 PM

So you're saying you want and open relationship?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:41 PM
Tried. We've had date nights, therapy, just alone time. We've kind of just bottomed out


Quoting Fistandantalus:

Wouldn't it be better for you guys to try and reconnect?


MrsMeyers81
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:41 PM

I think your sselling your self short.. Sound depressed and self esteam issues.. Try going to counseling or something do things that make you feel good about your self... If your depressed and dont have the engery to do put into your self you really need to fix it.. I know I was like that before in my life!!! adn I do get depressed so I can relate

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:42 PM
I guess. His side would be open. I'd stay at home with the kids. He would be in charge of taking them to the park and to the store. I don't go out anywhere anymore


Quoting Anonymous:

So you're saying you want and open relationship?


Love060708kids
by on Nov. 24, 2012 at 5:42 PM

Wow, that's really sad.  I'm sorry :(

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