..You're not tryng to get pregnant are you? If I were you I would wait until your bills are paid off
WTF? She doesnt know my finances. Where did this come from? We are fine in the money department.
I love her to death but she really has no room to tell someone to wait before ttc because of money. She has 3 kids and a husband. Neither of them have a job and he lost his when she was pregnant with the first 2 (twins).
**BTW I am the OP of the post where I am buying her groceries atleast twice a month and taking her everywhere she needs to go. So basically I am supporting her family with my money too.
tell her "You know what, you're right. I guess that means I can't buy your groceries and drive you around anymore, need that money now for myself. Sorry!"
This, alot of you bitches need to learn to solve your own problems. I understand that it was rude and inconsiderate but you know what you teach people how to treat you!
Quoting SRUsarahSC:tell her "You know what, you're right. I guess that means I can't buy your groceries and drive you around anymore, need that money now for myself. Sorry!"
I am a friend, a wife,a daughter but the best title I have by far is Mother .
She doesn't want to lose out on your support if you have a baby.
We hav been friends in we were 4. When I needed help she has helped me. Honestly sometimes I do feel a little taken advantage of. I never asked for more than I needed or more than was possible to pay back. It didnt last as long either
Quoting Anonymous:
Why do you love this woman "to death"? What does she do for you, besides give you rude unsolicited advice and take your money?
Maybe she is afraid that once you have a baby, you won't have the money or time to buy her groceries and drive her around.
Tell her to mind her own business and have fun TTC (if you are)
Maybe what she meant is taht you should be ttc until you pay off her bills.
Do you ever get hit on even looking a mess?
Why inflict this silly cosmetic pain on a baby!?!