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The condom busted!! Advice please?? EDIT

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 My fwb and I had sex earlier this morning and the condom busted. Yes, he came inside of me but seeing as that I'm on cycle day 22 of a usual 33 day cycle, should I be concerned about pregnancy? My LMP was November 4th. I don't do ovulation tests or chart, the only thing I do is track my cycle from month to month and sometimes I note the symptoms. According to most online ovulation calculators my O days would have been the 21st-25th. AF should be here next week on the 7th I think? Advice please?? Thanks ladies

Based on the information ABOVE what do you think my chances of pregnancy are?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:03 PM
Replies (41-50):
Xanbuttsmom
by on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:37 PM

 I donno. My advice, get better condoms.

wyldebtrfly
by Silver Member on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:38 PM

I'm not part of this but i'm so sorry. My BFF made that choice (or rather HE made that choicce for her..but that's a whole other issue) and she's hated herself for it since (and she's gone on to have two kids) She's never really forgiven herself for it. 

Quoting singlemom1208:

You can PM me or we can talk here. I made a post about it once. I feel like a murderer. I felt at the time it was what was best, but looking back I realized I could've handled it.

Quoting Anonymous:

 How do you feel about it? If you want to talk I'll PM you.


Quoting singlemom1208:

None since then. Don't know if I ever want more. It's just something I have to live with. Not everyone feels the way I do about it.


Quoting Anonymous:


 Oh mama I'm sorry. How far along were you? Apparently you regret it now. Have you had kids since then or was this recently?



Quoting singlemom1208:

It happened around midnight and I was at the pharmacy at 7am. But I think I was the exception, it wouldn't hurt to try it anyway. After it didn't work I went with plan c, worst mistake ever.



Quoting Anonymous:



 How soon after having unprotected sex did you take it? Considering that my period is only a week away would it matter if I took it or not? Are you happy now that it didn't work?




Quoting singlemom1208:

Plan B. it didn't work for me though.



 



 


 


singlemom1208
by on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:41 PM
It's defiantly a tough decision to have to live with.

Quoting wyldebtrfly:

I'm not part of this but i'm so sorry. My BFF made that choice (or rather HE made that choicce for her..but that's a whole other issue) and she's hated herself for it since (and she's gone on to have two kids) She's never really forgiven herself for it. 


Quoting singlemom1208:

You can PM me or we can talk here. I made a post about it once. I feel like a murderer. I felt at the time it was what was best, but looking back I realized I could've handled it.



Quoting Anonymous:

 How do you feel about it? If you want to talk I'll PM you.



Quoting singlemom1208:

None since then. Don't know if I ever want more. It's just something I have to live with. Not everyone feels the way I do about it.



Quoting Anonymous:



 Oh mama I'm sorry. How far along were you? Apparently you regret it now. Have you had kids since then or was this recently?




Quoting singlemom1208:

It happened around midnight and I was at the pharmacy at 7am. But I think I was the exception, it wouldn't hurt to try it anyway. After it didn't work I went with plan c, worst mistake ever.




Quoting Anonymous:




 How soon after having unprotected sex did you take it? Considering that my period is only a week away would it matter if I took it or not? Are you happy now that it didn't work?





Quoting singlemom1208:

Plan B. it didn't work for me though.




 




 



 


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wyldebtrfly
by Silver Member on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:44 PM

Most of the tough decisions are.
My mom gave up my sister. Every year she made a cake on her birthday. She never really 'got over it' and felt like she was missing from our lives.
It was always hard for her :( Adoption can be just as hard as the choice to abort.

Quoting singlemom1208:

It's defiantly a tough decision to have to live with.

Quoting wyldebtrfly:

I'm not part of this but i'm so sorry. My BFF made that choice (or rather HE made that choicce for her..but that's a whole other issue) and she's hated herself for it since (and she's gone on to have two kids) She's never really forgiven herself for it. 


Quoting singlemom1208:

You can PM me or we can talk here. I made a post about it once. I feel like a murderer. I felt at the time it was what was best, but looking back I realized I could've handled it.



Quoting Anonymous:

 How do you feel about it? If you want to talk I'll PM you.



Quoting singlemom1208:

None since then. Don't know if I ever want more. It's just something I have to live with. Not everyone feels the way I do about it.



Quoting Anonymous:



 Oh mama I'm sorry. How far along were you? Apparently you regret it now. Have you had kids since then or was this recently?




Quoting singlemom1208:

It happened around midnight and I was at the pharmacy at 7am. But I think I was the exception, it wouldn't hurt to try it anyway. After it didn't work I went with plan c, worst mistake ever.




Quoting Anonymous:




 How soon after having unprotected sex did you take it? Considering that my period is only a week away would it matter if I took it or not? Are you happy now that it didn't work?





Quoting singlemom1208:

Plan B. it didn't work for me though.




 




 



 



singlemom1208
by on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:51 PM
I think adoption is probably a way harder choice. Your poor mama.

Quoting wyldebtrfly:

Most of the tough decisions are.
My mom gave up my sister. Every year she made a cake on her birthday. She never really 'got over it' and felt like she was missing from our lives.
It was always hard for her :( Adoption can be just as hard as the choice to abort.


Quoting singlemom1208:

It's defiantly a tough decision to have to live with.



Quoting wyldebtrfly:

I'm not part of this but i'm so sorry. My BFF made that choice (or rather HE made that choicce for her..but that's a whole other issue) and she's hated herself for it since (and she's gone on to have two kids) She's never really forgiven herself for it. 



Quoting singlemom1208:

You can PM me or we can talk here. I made a post about it once. I feel like a murderer. I felt at the time it was what was best, but looking back I realized I could've handled it.





Quoting Anonymous:

 How do you feel about it? If you want to talk I'll PM you.




Quoting singlemom1208:

None since then. Don't know if I ever want more. It's just something I have to live with. Not everyone feels the way I do about it.




Quoting Anonymous:




 Oh mama I'm sorry. How far along were you? Apparently you regret it now. Have you had kids since then or was this recently?





Quoting singlemom1208:

It happened around midnight and I was at the pharmacy at 7am. But I think I was the exception, it wouldn't hurt to try it anyway. After it didn't work I went with plan c, worst mistake ever.





Quoting Anonymous:





 How soon after having unprotected sex did you take it? Considering that my period is only a week away would it matter if I took it or not? Are you happy now that it didn't work?






Quoting singlemom1208:

Plan B. it didn't work for me though.





 





 




 



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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:52 PM
Get on bc!!! Some of you are fucking dumb.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:53 PM

 No because it's not like we have sex on a regular basis plus I'm already overweight so it just never crossed my mind.

Quoting deviljrswifey:

Ever think of Birth control pils? Or any other besides condoms?


Quoting Anonymous:

 We do use condoms and have used them everytime we've had sex. This time it busted though.


Quoting deviljrswifey:

maybe if you have a FWB then be on birth control and use condoms. Because im sure a FWB isnt going to want a baby.



Quoting Anonymous:


 He's not a random guy, he's my fwb and we've been sleeping together for the past 3 months.



Quoting Anonymous:



Stop sleeping with random guys?



Oh wait, that's a non slut thing to do.



 



 


 

Fields456
by Ruby Member on Nov. 25, 2012 at 4:53 PM
Plan b
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 25, 2012 at 5:00 PM

 Why did you do it? How long ago was this? My sister had an abortion at 14 when she was 2 months along and then got pregnant again 4-5 months later. She hid this pregnancy though and so by the time anyone knew anything she was 6 months along. Her daughter is now 2 years old.

Why don't you want anymore kids? I've never had an abortion as I don't belive in them but I don't think you should stop one mistake from bringing you further joy in your life. What did the father of the baby think?

Quoting singlemom1208:

I think adoption is probably a way harder choice. Your poor mama.

Quoting wyldebtrfly:

Most of the tough decisions are.
My mom gave up my sister. Every year she made a cake on her birthday. She never really 'got over it' and felt like she was missing from our lives.
It was always hard for her :( Adoption can be just as hard as the choice to abort.


Quoting singlemom1208:

It's defiantly a tough decision to have to live with.



Quoting wyldebtrfly:

I'm not part of this but i'm so sorry. My BFF made that choice (or rather HE made that choicce for her..but that's a whole other issue) and she's hated herself for it since (and she's gone on to have two kids) She's never really forgiven herself for it. 



Quoting singlemom1208:

You can PM me or we can talk here. I made a post about it once. I feel like a murderer. I felt at the time it was what was best, but looking back I realized I could've handled it.





Quoting Anonymous:

 How do you feel about it? If you want to talk I'll PM you.




Quoting singlemom1208:

None since then. Don't know if I ever want more. It's just something I have to live with. Not everyone feels the way I do about it.




Quoting Anonymous:




 Oh mama I'm sorry. How far along were you? Apparently you regret it now. Have you had kids since then or was this recently?





Quoting singlemom1208:

It happened around midnight and I was at the pharmacy at 7am. But I think I was the exception, it wouldn't hurt to try it anyway. After it didn't work I went with plan c, worst mistake ever.





Quoting Anonymous:





 How soon after having unprotected sex did you take it? Considering that my period is only a week away would it matter if I took it or not? Are you happy now that it didn't work?






Quoting singlemom1208:

Plan B. it didn't work for me though.





 





 




 

 

 

 

LilynAustin
by on Nov. 25, 2012 at 5:02 PM

I guess plan B?  Oh, and get on the pill.  Condoms are only about 85-95% effective.  NOT 99% like they claim.  Get on the pill or something and use condoms too!  ALWAYS use condoms, please please please!!! 

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