This is the only time I'll ever post anonymously.
There is a man, I've known him for quite some time now, I know how his brain works, I know his insecurities, I also know his great points. He fell in love with me, and it didn't take long for me to share his feelings. There happens to be a serious problem though! He's 48 and I'm 19.
It sounds bad, like sugar daddy type bad, but in reality our personalities are on the same maturity level. Recently I moved back interstate to live with my dad, because things were becoming ridiculously hard in my home town, only problem with that, is I left him behind.
He's tried to move on, but it's not working for either of us, and he is actually a really good looking fellow.
So this is the message I received from him today;
I want you to seriously think about this before you call, I want you with me. If I stop gambling I can save about $400 - $500 a week. When I have enough to fly you back we can live together, we share everything. If you're happy after a couple of months, I'll ask you to marry me. I am very serious, even to the point of helping you get custody. I truly love you.
P.S I don't mean live in a shitty room, temporarily in the motel section till we find a house or unit for us, would also need a car. I want do much to try this.
So I'm at a loss. I really do love him and know that he really will do all he says for me, but it means going behind my dads back, avoiding getting a job down here and pissing off to the other state.
I just really need some suggestions. Feel free to ask questions also.