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My boyfriend is obsessed with young women!!!!

Anonymous
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So, we have been together for four years now. Over the last year I have been noticing him staring and gawking at other women. When confronted with this new observation, he denied looking at other women. After a few months it worsened. He stared at church, in the grocery store, during family outings etc. Last May we attended a graduation party. He was walking around taking pictures as he thinks he is a photographer. I noticed each picture taken had one particular 18 year old in each photo. She had a shirt on that showed most of her breast. I told him to delete the pictures and he argued that the pictures were of everyone. Did I mention he is 48 years old and 14 years my senior. That should have been the first RED flag......... He denies being obsessed with young women, but I believe he is. I have left him several times for this inappropriate behavior bur somehow he ends up literally Crying his way back. Has anyone else been through this? I need advice!!!
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:24 AM
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kathislove80
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:25 AM
Ew. That would be a deal breaker for me.
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happy41ce
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:26 AM

I think you already know the answer..this is a big red flag..are you sure he has not acted on his "obsession"? I am not accusing..just asking.

AF2011
by Ruby Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:26 AM

well sounds like you're getting too old for him. He needs young fresh meat. pretty gross IMO

lovelove211
by Platinum Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:27 AM
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DieselsMom
by Gold Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:27 AM

He's an old perv......as long as he doesn't act on it, and they are over 18, meh....but if he doesn't respect you as his wife, give him the boot!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:44 AM
I agree, He worries me. Im ready to throw in the towel.


Quoting DieselsMom:

He's an old perv......as long as he doesn't act on it, and they are over 18, meh....but if he doesn't respect you as his wife, give him the boot!


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:45 AM
I actually said that to him jokingly at one point. But in reality "it is what it is"


Quoting happy41ce:

I think you already know the answer..this is a big red flag..are you sure he has not acted on his "obsession"? I am not accusing..just asking.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:46 AM

Then leave and don't come back. I hate old pervs like that. They seem to get worse with age.

Does he get in to a lot of the 18 year old porn crap too?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:49 AM
I think you're right!!! I jokingly said the same thing, but in actuality.... That may be his thought process


Quoting AF2011:

well sounds like you're getting too old for him. He needs young fresh meat. pretty gross IMO


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 5:51 AM
Im not sure about the porn, but he is addicted to the internet. He closes his laptop when I enter the room because he sneaks on facebook. No telling what he does when Im not there


Quoting Anonymous:

Then leave and don't come back. I hate old pervs like that. They seem to get worse with age.

Does he get in to a lot of the 18 year old porn crap too?


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