So, we have been together for four years now. Over the last year I have been noticing him staring and gawking at other women. When confronted with this new observation, he denied looking at other women. After a few months it worsened. He stared at church, in the grocery store, during family outings etc. Last May we attended a graduation party. He was walking around taking pictures as he thinks he is a photographer. I noticed each picture taken had one particular 18 year old in each photo. She had a shirt on that showed most of her breast. I told him to delete the pictures and he argued that the pictures were of everyone. Did I mention he is 48 years old and 14 years my senior. That should have been the first RED flag......... He denies being obsessed with young women, but I believe he is. I have left him several times for this inappropriate behavior bur somehow he ends up literally Crying his way back. Has anyone else been through this? I need advice!!!