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Evil step mother here. ***update on page 40*******

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I'm beyond pissed and if this makes me an evil step mother, so be it. My husbands ex wife just called. She told us my husbands daughter got two speeding tickets this month. The first one she was gong 80 in a 55 zone and the second was yesterday, she was going 85 in a 45 zone. She is 19. The combined fines for both tickets is a total of 600 to keep her from losing her license. So, my husband told her mom we would pay it. I think this time I have a right to be pissed. Dh is going to take it out of the money we have saved for the kids christmas. So guess what that means ??? Yep, all the stuff we have on lay a way will get put back and we will be lucky to buy them a few things. That money was saved for a reason. My step daughters presents were coming out of it as well. But now it's all going to pay her fucking speeding tickets. I'm livid. I understand its his daughter and he doesn't want her to get in trouble , but she is 19 and knows better than to speed. I'm in tears. Am I wrong for feeling this way ??? I'm going to get the stuff out of lay a way. I'm sure my husband will be upset with me but oh well. I'll update again later.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:02 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:09 AM

Why can't bm at least go halfsies? It would serve your sd right if she lost her license!

duejan13th
by Platinum Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:09 AM
That is bull shit. She's 19
Time for her to grow up.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yep. He said I know you are upset but we have to do this and we will make sure they kiss have a better Christmas next year .....I was like fucking seriously ?!



Quoting duejan13th:

That's bull shit. Also teaches her that daddy will bail her out. She will do it again...

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TXMOM1980
by Bronze Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:09 AM

she 19 she need to get a job..i would have taken her keys after the 1st why why dose he have to pay for all of it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:09 AM
That's what I don't understand. She got on the phone balling saying please daddy... It made me sick.

Quoting TiffanyRose06:

She's an adult, not a teenager. It is not his job to pay it and she needs to learn a lesson



Why should the younger kids have to suffer? That's the most fucked up part.
HistoryNutty
by Ruby Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:09 AM
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Upset is pretty appropriate in this situation. I know we'd make our own daughter pay for her own speeding tickets when she's that age.

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't know how to feel right now. I'm so upset.



Quoting HistoryNutty:

Screw that! She should grow up, get a job, and pay her own darn tickets. And learn to drive better too!
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amyleigh80
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:09 AM
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She should pay her own ticket for sure and I would demand that she do so....you are not evil, your SD is a spoiled brat who should deal with the consequences of her stupid, dangerous actions.

AmberRose1122
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:10 AM
She can take care of her own dang ticket.
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mary841108
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:10 AM

 she should pay her own ticket. i had to when i got one when i was 17. my parents made me work my ass off to pay it and then THEY took my license for 6 months.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:10 AM
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put your daughter's stuff on a cc and let him figure out how to pay it.  Don't get the 19 year old anything else, her gift is the paid tickets

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:10 AM

Agreed! She's 19!! Come on, she's not a minor. She should take care of herself. It's time to cut the umbilical cord and let her learn her lessons the hard way! I would be really mad too! You have every right.

Quoting duejan13th:

She should pay her own ticket..


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