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i dont see why looking at porn is a huge issue....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I mean, he's with you right? Don't you think about other sometimes when ur getting off??

I don't think it's cheating like most women.....?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:39 AM
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by Anonymous 9 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:59 AM

I don't much like watching things.  I'd rather be doing it. 

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:59 AM
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Porn is sex. Sex is far from discusting.

If men wanna watch porn rather the have sex w there wives then yes, it is a problem

My husband and I watch it together. He has never cheated, never tried to say no to sex so he could jerk to porn.

I think that thinking about other people during sex is natural. It keeps things interesting.

Quoting Anonymous:

Porn is disgusting, first of all. Second, You see alot of posts here on CM where the women are complaining the husbands would rather jack-off to porn than have sex with them....that's a MAJOR issue. Third, it will never have a place in my home because thankfully the husband hates it and I don't like it. 

You can allow your husband to look at other woman, not going to happen with me. And no, I don't think of others when I'm getting off because I think my husband is the sexiest thing alive and nothing can compare to him.

by Gold Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:00 PM
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I don't see the big deal either as long as it's not an addiction or they're spending a lot of money on it.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:00 PM
Sone of them are pretty but I've never seen a drop dead sexy one lol.

Quoting Melanie420:

we watch it together, we enjoy it, we do stuff to eachother while watching it, he doesnt think any of those girls are hot, but watching people have sex turns us on even more and then we want some as well

by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:00 PM
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 No, I don't get off thinking of others, and I don't thinks it's right if my husband does either. He may have not physically cheated, but his sexual need is somewhere other than with me if he watches it. I am not okay with that. Yes, porn is a better alternative than him sleeping with someone else to fulfil his needs, but loyal man wouldn't NEED to fulfill those needs in any way other than with his SO.

by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:00 PM

We love to watch porn together. We don't do it very often, but sometimes.

by Anonymous 10 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:01 PM
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I don't ever fantasize about other men, ever. I can go out in public and notice if someone is pretty/handsome, if they have good hair, or nice shoes...but I don't take it to the dirty place lol. I just don't do it. I obviously am incapable of reading minds and am only in control of myself, but I do have a porn-free home. Every couple is different, my dh and I believe that lusting over other people is wrong. It works for us.

by Bigby Wolf on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:03 PM
We just don't watch it. I get off fantasizing about my husband. Porn is not something I like and my husband respects that and knows that he doesn't need it. There's no reason for it.
by Katie on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:04 PM
I have a hard time believing this when ppl say it. From what I've seen porn is about aesthetics. Those angles are for filming as much penetration as possible not pleasure. I do also realize there is tons of porn i haven't seen so i can't back up my statement lol. Just what i think when i hear that :D

Quoting Anonymous:

Exactly. We have gotten so many tricks and tried so many things since we started watching together..... we both know what eachother likes.

Quoting mamivon2:

Agree.. I dont care if he watches or looks at porn. I much rather have him do that then go out and f***some dirty whore..

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by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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Yeah, I don't understand how it's okay for women to read something like 50 Shades of Grey, but they freak out over their man looking at naked pictures. I think some women are very insecure and are easily jealous.

Granted, as PPs have stated, it's different for every relationship. If it's against your religious beliefs to watch or use pornography, that's an entirely separate issue. I am referring to those that lack religious convictions against it; Do they feel like it's cheating? How is it different from reading a romance novel? I think most guys that are spanking it to porn aren't imagining having sex with that woman; DH has said before that he doesn't even look at faces, it's just seeing a penis go into a vagina. I believe him, because that's what I'm looking at when I watch it, lol.

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