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i dont see why looking at porn is a huge issue....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I mean, he's with you right? Don't you think about other sometimes when ur getting off??

I don't think it's cheating like most women.....?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:39 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:47 AM
Why did you choose to live that way? What made you say no?

I'm not being a bitch, I'm honestly curious....


Quoting jillbailey26:

That's great for you.  We simply hold ourselves and our relationship to a different standard.  A standard to where porn has no place.  


My4Kidds
by Silver Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:48 AM

eh, i don't like it. but i'd rather he look at it and sleep with me than go cheat.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:49 AM
That's how I used to feel. I'm overweight, not that pretty but dh loves me. We never used to watch when we were first dating.

Now as married adults we watch. Our sex life is amazing.


Quoting danie24:

 I think it's a low self esteem thing..


jillbailey26
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:49 AM
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Some people just aren't interested in it.  It's never even been a discussion in our relationship because neither of us are interested in it, never have been.  Yes, even him.

Quoting Anonymous:

Ok but again, why? How did you come about that? What made you say "no porn"?

Was it religion?

Family?

Was it one person at first or mutual??


Quoting Beautiful31mom:

because we both think it is inappropriate for our marriage.

Quoting Anonymous:

Ok but why?





Quoting Beautiful31mom:

No, When I get off I think about my husband. And we do not watch porn in our home it has no place here.







"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:49 AM
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I don't think not watching porn is equal to him cheating. If he was going to he prob would regardless of watching it or not.


Quoting My4Kidds:

eh, i don't like it. but i'd rather he look at it and sleep with me than go cheat.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:50 AM
We live in the Bible belt where we think God is watching us while we watch it! Lol I tried to kink up our relationship w/ watching it together. We went to a Xmas service that had a skit where watching porn is the devils work with his super religious family. I just sighed and was cussing (in my head) how I'm never going to get him to do that again because of this skit:( I think it stops you from cheating because it's full filling a fantasy. Pro porn! Haha.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:50 AM
Ty


Quoting jillbailey26:

Some people just aren't interested in it.  It's never even been a discussion in our relationship because neither of us are interested in it, never have been.  Yes, even him.

Quoting Anonymous:

Ok but again, why? How did you come about that? What made you say "no porn"?



Was it religion?



Family?



Was it one person at first or mutual??





Quoting Beautiful31mom:

because we both think it is inappropriate for our marriage.

Quoting Anonymous:

Ok but why?








Quoting Beautiful31mom:

No, When I get off I think about my husband. And we do not watch porn in our home it has no place here.









jillbailey26
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:50 AM

It's not something we actively chose.  This is how we live.  We're simply not interested in it.

Quoting Anonymous:

Why did you choose to live that way? What made you say no?

I'm not being a bitch, I'm honestly curious....


Quoting jillbailey26:

That's great for you.  We simply hold ourselves and our relationship to a different standard.  A standard to where porn has no place.  




"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:51 AM
Lol I lived in a really religious part of the south for a year and we found a sex shop. It was hidden behind a fake wall! I was shocked


Quoting Anonymous:

We live in the Bible belt where we think God is watching us while we watch it! Lol I tried to kink up our relationship w/ watching it together. We went to a Xmas service that had a skit where watching porn is the devils work with his super religious family. I just sighed and was cussing (in my head) how I'm never going to get him to do that again because of this skit:( I think it stops you from cheating because it's full filling a fantasy. Pro porn! Haha.

MrS.GiFFord
by Platinum Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:52 AM
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Its really none of my business what people do in their own marriage. We watch porn occasionally...him more than me. It was a long freakin deployment!

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