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i dont see why looking at porn is a huge issue....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I mean, he's with you right? Don't you think about other sometimes when ur getting off??

I don't think it's cheating like most women.....?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:39 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:53 AM
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Porn is not ok in my marriage. My husband has been exposed since he was a child and has a serious addiction. If i were to follow the advice of some of you people who don't understand, my husband WOULD end up cheating. Its part of the addiction. Eventually, tits on a screen arent enough.
My husband is focusing all his sexual energy on me. As it should be.
I also, only think of him.
Mommy2235
by Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:54 AM
Me and my hubby watch it together. I see nothing wrong with it. He watches it when I'm sleeping sometimes and I'm ok with it.
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auntietotty
by Ruby Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:55 AM

We dont look at it. Im not saying neither of us ever has...but it isnt a common occurance.

I think it can become an issue if the person uses it as a replacement for real-life human affection. (as in ignoring your spouse to look at porn)

My4Kidds
by Silver Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:55 AM

you are probably right but at least if he's getting enough of it at home, and is not having to deal with me bitching about the porn watching, he'll be more satisfied and less tempted to go elsewhere. imo..

Quoting Anonymous:

I don't think not watching porn is equal to him cheating. If he was going to he prob would regardless of watching it or not.


Quoting My4Kidds:

eh, i don't like it. but i'd rather he look at it and sleep with me than go cheat.



starmoonlight
by Bronze Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:56 AM
No issue with porn here.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:56 AM
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Porn is disgusting, first of all. Second, You see alot of posts here on CM where the women are complaining the husbands would rather jack-off to porn than have sex with them....that's a MAJOR issue. Third, it will never have a place in my home because thankfully the husband hates it and I don't like it. 

You can allow your husband to look at other woman, not going to happen with me. And no, I don't think of others when I'm getting off because I think my husband is the sexiest thing alive and nothing can compare to him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:56 AM
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 I would feel that I'm not good enough for him if he has to look at other girls.....we don't look at Porn.

ecerka
by Platinum Member on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:57 AM
We watched it occasionally together but honestly turned it off in a few minutes. We been together a really long time and now that we are older it just doesn't factor in our life anymore. We'd rather spend our time focusing on each other than watching someone else going at it.
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Melanie420
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:57 AM

we watch it together, we enjoy it, we do stuff to eachother while watching it, he doesnt think any of those girls are hot, but watching people have sex turns us on even more and then we want some as well

LamiavitaDivina
by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:59 AM
Well it's your opinion..... :)
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