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i dont see why looking at porn is a huge issue....

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
I mean, he's with you right? Don't you think about other sometimes when ur getting off??

I don't think it's cheating like most women.....?
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 26, 2012 at 11:39 AM
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by Silver Member on Nov. 28, 2012 at 10:44 PM

I don't think its cheating either.  Whether women like it or not is one thing (I don't care) but I think it's a stretch to say most women think its cheating

by Anonymous 98 on Nov. 28, 2012 at 10:47 PM

well now i do because he's on the porn sites that are for meeting up and fucking. i used to not care if he watched it but i was clearly wrong.

by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 7:19 PM

Porn is not cheating, not that I look at it.  If he wants to it only helps lessen when I need to do.

by Anonymous 99 on Nov. 29, 2012 at 8:06 PM

porn is something my husband and I watch together. when one of us is in the mood and the other isn't sometimes it helps the one who isn't get into the mood. it's a great reference for ideas to spice things up. some things should be kept to the porn stars and we express our willingness to try or not to try something that we see. He watches seperately too and i don't mind. i don't think it's cheating. i feel it's more "research" lol

by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 8:38 PM
In my opinion hiding anything from your spouse is wrong! Whether it involves porn, messages, money Etc. you should always be upfront and honest with your spouse. You should be able to talk about anything and make compromises for each other. I don't neccesarlily think it is cheating if both people talk about it and agree with it. Every relationship is different. every persin is different. you can not simply say it is right or wrong for every relationship. you cannot say that every man likes it, or that every woman hates it. I do not think every man watches porn or every man wants to watch porn. Those of you that think every person has the same views on this are very narrow minded people. You cannot say. All people are different. Some men are highly religious and have strong biblical values. Some are disgusted by it for entirely different reasons. Some people love it, some don't. Each person and each relationship is entirely different.There is no one size fits all guide book to relationships. I don't think anyone has the answers except the people in that relationship. It is up to them to decide whether they believe it is cheating. I will say this though, if a relationship is what it is supposed to be a compromise can be made. Both people's feelings are important no matter how insignificant an outsider may think they are. It doesn't involve the outsider it is between the two of them.
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by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 10:56 PM

I never think about anyone else that way. But that's just me.. Everyone is allowed to live their sex life the way they want, but if I caught my husband looking, I would feel inadequate and like he didn't think I was enough. So yeah, I consider it cheating.

by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 9:13 PM

I have no problem with porn at all.  I don't have a problem with strip clubs either.  Heck sometimes I watch it and go to the strip clubs with him (or by myself).  As long as he comes to me or satisfies himself I don't care.  More power to him.


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