me and bff are having a debate about something. her dd is super smart, but really nerdy, socially awkward, and has no friends (and I love her to death). my DS is the "cool kid", lots of friends, always goofing off, not the best grades... I can't stand it sometimes. I wish he were a little more like her as far as focusing on school more than friends. But she wishes her DD was more like DS. She even went as far as that she would sacrifice some of her "smarts" for her to be cooler because she believes that learning that type of personality will be important later in life. that socially awkward introverted people aren't the ones that succeed and end up getting stepped on.
who's right? do your kids fall into either category?