My confession.... I don't feel sorry for most people
I think most people need to grow up and get over stuff. My life has been far from perfect...but I don't let it bring me down. I hate when people blame something that happened 20 years ago for their present life. I had an absentee alcoholic father, a drunk abusive step father who molested me, emotionally abusive grandparents, and the list goes on. My child was molested by someone I trusted. My husband cheated and betrayed me. He did drugs and put us Ina horrible financial position.
I hear people whine and complain and blame others for their life. Hell. With my life no one would blink if I chose to drink life away. It is about being stronger, getting the help you need, and moving forward.
I went to al anon after DH got busted for cocaine and entered rehab. All I heard was people whining about the alcoholics in their life. I never heard one person who really was trying to get past it.