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Talk about problems about you two to his friends?

Df and always had access to eachothers fb and email because we are honest and have nothing to hide. Well I just logged into his email to see some tracking info for a package and I see an email from fb about him changing his password. I asked him because that's kinda suspicious. After a couple failed lies, I got the answer. He was asking his friends advice about our problems. I don't like our problems in the open like that and now I will feel uncomfortable being around his friends.

Does your so do this? How does it make you feel?
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by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:08 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:18 PM

this was an issue in a marriage in the beginning.  I am very private and I do not share marital conflicts with anyone. I am Latin and grew with the notion of the dirty laundry is washed at home idea. 

SweetMama823
by Platinum Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:18 PM
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Quoting Anonymous:

No he doesn't, thankfully. 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:18 PM
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....neither of us have close friends
Traceyssel
by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:19 PM
No, he won't tell me what he said either

Quoting Anonymous:

did he prove this by showing you the conversations he is hiding? because that could just be an excuse to make him in trouble, but not for what he should really be in trouble for....

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michiganmom5150
by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:19 PM
He has one friend he talks about me to. He also brags about me to him, so I don't mind.
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GagaNTattooS
by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:21 PM
Sure he does man has to vent to someone
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:23 PM
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Sometimes he does, but it doesn't bother me. He needs to get outside perspective sometimes. Most times though he calls his mom with our problems, she puts him in line for me :)
Brandyns87
by Gold Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:24 PM
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I'm pretty sure he has, and I don't like it. I don't like our dirty laundry being aired. If there's a problem he needs to talk to me about it. Involving other people only makes them think they have some kind of say so in what goes on.

CABZS
by Emerald Member on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:25 PM

Sorry but I see no issue w/what your hubby has done.

I talk to my friends about problems if needed, that is what friends are for:)

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 29, 2012 at 11:27 PM
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Hmm....that....is pretty suspicious. Either he said some horrible things about you, or he is saying it to a woman and doesn't want you to know. 

Quoting Traceyssel:

No, he won't tell me what he said either

Quoting Anonymous:

did he prove this by showing you the conversations he is hiding? because that could just be an excuse to make him in trouble, but not for what he should really be in trouble for....


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