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Dear Mother In Law... *** Updated 11/30 ***

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Get the fuck over your petty little bitchings. I'm [not] sorry that I decided to go to college instead of kissing your drug-addicted whoring ass. Get over yourself because your son is with me and no longer up your ass. Cut the fucking umbilical cord. He has. If you don't like how I'm raising my daughter, you don't have to be a part of our lives. If you don't want to follow my "stupid" rules, you won't get a choice in being a part of SD's life. Grow the fuck up and deal. I'm marrying your son, so just because you had SD while DH was in Basic doesn't mean shit anymore, especially since you fucking did drugs and went to the bar while watching SD, and stole money from your son which we could seriously use for SD right now. I'm with them and she's in MY custody, meaning to be a part of her life, you gotta be a part of mine, and follow DH and I's rules.

Yours truely,

Your DIL.


*****UPDATE*******

I got phone calls from MIL and FIL this morning, cursing me out. They will NOT be seeing SD AT ALL during our visit to PA. They are DONE and OUT of SD's and my lives.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2012 at 12:01 AM
Replies (31-40):
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:20 AM

If you'd get your head out of your ass and read the previous replies, you'd see that it was either his mother or his daughter's abusive mother. I'm [not] sorry that he'd rather have someone around that would be high but not physically hurt her than a dead daughter. Fuck off.

Quoting areyouatroll:

His mom does drugs and neglects her but he says she should still get visitation? Ya he's a great parent!

Quoting Anonymous:

Where in the hell in any of that did you get that he doesn't care for his child? Because he wants her to know her grandparents? That makes him not care?! Who the hell are you to say that he doesn't care about her? You know only what I've posted here, nothing more. Do not go and making accusations about my husband without proof and without knowing us! He knows that with me being in control of what they do with SD, they will either conform to the rules or not see her at all. Go get off the fucking computer and learn to read.

Quoting areyouatroll:

How can you be with someone who doesn't care about their children?



Quoting Anonymous:

"I don't know"

I just had a conversation with him about all of this, because I'm going home for the holidays, and he can't because he's military and couldn't get leave. I'm going because I need a break from this base, and we obviously don't have child care because I'm a SAHM, so SD is coming with me. His parents want to be able to have her when they like for as long as they like, and I'm not having it. They're lucky I'm even letting them see her at all, and that's just gonna be for a few hours a day. My "stupid" rules are: No overnight visits, and No drugs around her. If I have to, I'll get her piss tested if I suspect anything. If that happens, I'm calling the cops on them and having them arrested for child endangerment. 

I've even told him that it's against all my maternal instincts to let them have her even for a few hours. He's still persisting on letting them see her.

Quoting MamaMay007:

And is reply is?!


 I can't imagine my hubby letting someone like that into my kids lives.  He has cut out other relatives for far less...



Quoting Anonymous:

I've asked the same thing sooo many times, I've lost count.

Quoting MamaMay007:

All I can say is: 


why the hell does your dh want this woman in his life at all?!!?  








areyouatroll
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:24 AM
And why does she have to be around either one? Youre sick with your excuses.

Quoting Anonymous:

If you'd get your head out of your ass and read the previous replies, you'd see that it was either his mother or his daughter's abusive mother. I'm [not] sorry that he'd rather have someone around that would be high but not physically hurt her than a dead daughter. Fuck off.

Quoting areyouatroll:

His mom does drugs and neglects her but he says she should still get visitation? Ya he's a great parent!



Quoting Anonymous:

Where in the hell in any of that did you get that he doesn't care for his child? Because he wants her to know her grandparents? That makes him not care?! Who the hell are you to say that he doesn't care about her? You know only what I've posted here, nothing more. Do not go and making accusations about my husband without proof and without knowing us! He knows that with me being in control of what they do with SD, they will either conform to the rules or not see her at all. Go get off the fucking computer and learn to read.

Quoting areyouatroll:

How can you be with someone who doesn't care about their children?





Quoting Anonymous:

"I don't know"

I just had a conversation with him about all of this, because I'm going home for the holidays, and he can't because he's military and couldn't get leave. I'm going because I need a break from this base, and we obviously don't have child care because I'm a SAHM, so SD is coming with me. His parents want to be able to have her when they like for as long as they like, and I'm not having it. They're lucky I'm even letting them see her at all, and that's just gonna be for a few hours a day. My "stupid" rules are: No overnight visits, and No drugs around her. If I have to, I'll get her piss tested if I suspect anything. If that happens, I'm calling the cops on them and having them arrested for child endangerment. 

I've even told him that it's against all my maternal instincts to let them have her even for a few hours. He's still persisting on letting them see her.

Quoting MamaMay007:

And is reply is?!


 I can't imagine my hubby letting someone like that into my kids lives.  He has cut out other relatives for far less...




Quoting Anonymous:

I've asked the same thing sooo many times, I've lost count.

Quoting MamaMay007:

All I can say is: 


why the hell does your dh want this woman in his life at all?!!?  








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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:28 AM

And you're a bitch with your head up your ass. And she had to be around one or the other because no one else could get custody. Now he's just giving his daughter a chance to know her grandparents. She's not your child, nor is my situation your problem. 

Quoting areyouatroll:

And why does she have to be around either one? Youre sick with your excuses.

Quoting Anonymous:

If you'd get your head out of your ass and read the previous replies, you'd see that it was either his mother or his daughter's abusive mother. I'm [not] sorry that he'd rather have someone around that would be high but not physically hurt her than a dead daughter. Fuck off.

Quoting areyouatroll:

His mom does drugs and neglects her but he says she should still get visitation? Ya he's a great parent!



Quoting Anonymous:

Where in the hell in any of that did you get that he doesn't care for his child? Because he wants her to know her grandparents? That makes him not care?! Who the hell are you to say that he doesn't care about her? You know only what I've posted here, nothing more. Do not go and making accusations about my husband without proof and without knowing us! He knows that with me being in control of what they do with SD, they will either conform to the rules or not see her at all. Go get off the fucking computer and learn to read.

Quoting areyouatroll:

How can you be with someone who doesn't care about their children?





Quoting Anonymous:

"I don't know"

I just had a conversation with him about all of this, because I'm going home for the holidays, and he can't because he's military and couldn't get leave. I'm going because I need a break from this base, and we obviously don't have child care because I'm a SAHM, so SD is coming with me. His parents want to be able to have her when they like for as long as they like, and I'm not having it. They're lucky I'm even letting them see her at all, and that's just gonna be for a few hours a day. My "stupid" rules are: No overnight visits, and No drugs around her. If I have to, I'll get her piss tested if I suspect anything. If that happens, I'm calling the cops on them and having them arrested for child endangerment. 

I've even told him that it's against all my maternal instincts to let them have her even for a few hours. He's still persisting on letting them see her.

Quoting MamaMay007:

And is reply is?!


 I can't imagine my hubby letting someone like that into my kids lives.  He has cut out other relatives for far less...




Quoting Anonymous:

I've asked the same thing sooo many times, I've lost count.

Quoting MamaMay007:

All I can say is: 


why the hell does your dh want this woman in his life at all?!!?  









areyouatroll
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:30 AM



So.basically-

'Blah blah blah can't find a good man who protects his kid from druggie, neglectful people'


Quoting Anonymous:

And you're a bitch with your head up your ass. And she had to be around one or the other because no one else could get custody. Now he's just giving his daughter a chance to know her grandparents. She's not your child, nor is my situation your problem. 

Quoting areyouatroll:

And why does she have to be around either one? Youre sick with your excuses.



Quoting Anonymous:

If you'd get your head out of your ass and read the previous replies, you'd see that it was either his mother or his daughter's abusive mother. I'm [not] sorry that he'd rather have someone around that would be high but not physically hurt her than a dead daughter. Fuck off.

Quoting areyouatroll:

His mom does drugs and neglects her but he says she should still get visitation? Ya he's a great parent!





Quoting Anonymous:

Where in the hell in any of that did you get that he doesn't care for his child? Because he wants her to know her grandparents? That makes him not care?! Who the hell are you to say that he doesn't care about her? You know only what I've posted here, nothing more. Do not go and making accusations about my husband without proof and without knowing us! He knows that with me being in control of what they do with SD, they will either conform to the rules or not see her at all. Go get off the fucking computer and learn to read.

Quoting areyouatroll:

How can you be with someone who doesn't care about their children?







Quoting Anonymous:

"I don't know"

I just had a conversation with him about all of this, because I'm going home for the holidays, and he can't because he's military and couldn't get leave. I'm going because I need a break from this base, and we obviously don't have child care because I'm a SAHM, so SD is coming with me. His parents want to be able to have her when they like for as long as they like, and I'm not having it. They're lucky I'm even letting them see her at all, and that's just gonna be for a few hours a day. My "stupid" rules are: No overnight visits, and No drugs around her. If I have to, I'll get her piss tested if I suspect anything. If that happens, I'm calling the cops on them and having them arrested for child endangerment. 

I've even told him that it's against all my maternal instincts to let them have her even for a few hours. He's still persisting on letting them see her.

Quoting MamaMay007:

And is reply is?!


 I can't imagine my hubby letting someone like that into my kids lives.  He has cut out other relatives for far less...





Quoting Anonymous:

I've asked the same thing sooo many times, I've lost count.

Quoting MamaMay007:

All I can say is: 


why the hell does your dh want this woman in his life at all?!!?  









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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:33 AM

Ya know what, Fuck you. You can think what you want about me and my family, but we're doing the best we can in the situation we've been dealt. You need to grow the fuck up and maybe become friends with his mom. I'm sure you'd get along great.

Quoting areyouatroll:




So.basically-

'Blah blah blah can't find a good man who protects his kid from druggie, neglectful people'


Quoting Anonymous:

And you're a bitch with your head up your ass. And she had to be around one or the other because no one else could get custody. Now he's just giving his daughter a chance to know her grandparents. She's not your child, nor is my situation your problem. 

Quoting areyouatroll:

And why does she have to be around either one? Youre sick with your excuses.



Quoting Anonymous:

If you'd get your head out of your ass and read the previous replies, you'd see that it was either his mother or his daughter's abusive mother. I'm [not] sorry that he'd rather have someone around that would be high but not physically hurt her than a dead daughter. Fuck off.

Quoting areyouatroll:

His mom does drugs and neglects her but he says she should still get visitation? Ya he's a great parent!





Quoting Anonymous:

Where in the hell in any of that did you get that he doesn't care for his child? Because he wants her to know her grandparents? That makes him not care?! Who the hell are you to say that he doesn't care about her? You know only what I've posted here, nothing more. Do not go and making accusations about my husband without proof and without knowing us! He knows that with me being in control of what they do with SD, they will either conform to the rules or not see her at all. Go get off the fucking computer and learn to read.

Quoting areyouatroll:

How can you be with someone who doesn't care about their children?







Quoting Anonymous:

"I don't know"

I just had a conversation with him about all of this, because I'm going home for the holidays, and he can't because he's military and couldn't get leave. I'm going because I need a break from this base, and we obviously don't have child care because I'm a SAHM, so SD is coming with me. His parents want to be able to have her when they like for as long as they like, and I'm not having it. They're lucky I'm even letting them see her at all, and that's just gonna be for a few hours a day. My "stupid" rules are: No overnight visits, and No drugs around her. If I have to, I'll get her piss tested if I suspect anything. If that happens, I'm calling the cops on them and having them arrested for child endangerment. 

I've even told him that it's against all my maternal instincts to let them have her even for a few hours. He's still persisting on letting them see her.

Quoting MamaMay007:

And is reply is?!


 I can't imagine my hubby letting someone like that into my kids lives.  He has cut out other relatives for far less...





Quoting Anonymous:

I've asked the same thing sooo many times, I've lost count.

Quoting MamaMay007:

All I can say is: 


why the hell does your dh want this woman in his life at all?!!?  










TAG_ur_it
by Platinum Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:59 AM

best group name ever lmao.  my MIL and i get along though.

Quoting Anonymous:

May want to visit this group.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 2:04 AM


Quoting TAG_ur_it:

best group name ever lmao.  my MIL and i get along though.

Quoting Anonymous:

May want to visit this group.


I love that group- they are so nice while telling you you are to blame or it's someone else. and the are sooooo funny- really good writers :)

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 2:05 AM
Your dh isn't making very good choices . Fam or not that's his child she comes first . Couldn't be with someone who sacrificed their own for a fam member
mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 2:08 AM
Whoa calm down

Quoting Anonymous:

Ya know what, Fuck you. You can think what you want about me and my family, but we're doing the best we can in the situation we've been dealt. You need to grow the fuck up and maybe become friends with his mom. I'm sure you'd get along great.

Quoting areyouatroll:







So.basically-



'Blah blah blah can't find a good man who protects his kid from druggie, neglectful people'




Quoting Anonymous:

And you're a bitch with your head up your ass. And she had to be around one or the other because no one else could get custody. Now he's just giving his daughter a chance to know her grandparents. She's not your child, nor is my situation your problem. 

Quoting areyouatroll:

And why does she have to be around either one? Youre sick with your excuses.





Quoting Anonymous:

If you'd get your head out of your ass and read the previous replies, you'd see that it was either his mother or his daughter's abusive mother. I'm [not] sorry that he'd rather have someone around that would be high but not physically hurt her than a dead daughter. Fuck off.

Quoting areyouatroll:

His mom does drugs and neglects her but he says she should still get visitation? Ya he's a great parent!







Quoting Anonymous:

Where in the hell in any of that did you get that he doesn't care for his child? Because he wants her to know her grandparents? That makes him not care?! Who the hell are you to say that he doesn't care about her? You know only what I've posted here, nothing more. Do not go and making accusations about my husband without proof and without knowing us! He knows that with me being in control of what they do with SD, they will either conform to the rules or not see her at all. Go get off the fucking computer and learn to read.

Quoting areyouatroll:

How can you be with someone who doesn't care about their children?









Quoting Anonymous:

"I don't know"

I just had a conversation with him about all of this, because I'm going home for the holidays, and he can't because he's military and couldn't get leave. I'm going because I need a break from this base, and we obviously don't have child care because I'm a SAHM, so SD is coming with me. His parents want to be able to have her when they like for as long as they like, and I'm not having it. They're lucky I'm even letting them see her at all, and that's just gonna be for a few hours a day. My "stupid" rules are: No overnight visits, and No drugs around her. If I have to, I'll get her piss tested if I suspect anything. If that happens, I'm calling the cops on them and having them arrested for child endangerment. 

I've even told him that it's against all my maternal instincts to let them have her even for a few hours. He's still persisting on letting them see her.

Quoting MamaMay007:

And is reply is?!


 I can't imagine my hubby letting someone like that into my kids lives.  He has cut out other relatives for far less...






Quoting Anonymous:

I've asked the same thing sooo many times, I've lost count.

Quoting MamaMay007:

All I can say is: 


why the hell does your dh want this woman in his life at all?!!?  










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afwifeandmommy3
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 2:09 AM
So she's being supervised while in their care right
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