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Define Cheating...

Anonymous
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I need to know what are the boundries in a relationship. I told my husband what he was doing with this girl was cheating on me and he said he wasn't. So before I get into what he did (will update later with his actions) What is your definition of cheating? 

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2012 at 12:44 AM
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mummy1990
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 12:47 AM

Being inappropriately intimate with another person, without a partners knowing or consent. Meaning, having an emotional affair, or sexual affair with another being. Porn and masturbation are excluded, unless they're paying for porn. Then I'd just think they're stupid because porn is free. 

PiNkIsPuNk
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 12:48 AM
Anything that causes him to emotionally/physically neglect me.
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FullMoonFever
by Gold Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:18 AM

For me it's strictly physical.Actual physical sexual contact.That includes a deep,lingering kiss or any kind of hugging that was much more than just a friend type of hug.Sexual type text messages or emails would definitely piss me off and not be tolerated,but I wouldn't consider it cheating.Just a big warning sign that he was likely on the way to cheating.

Devious333
by Ruby Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:19 AM
Yeah, this.

Quoting FullMoonFever:

For me it's strictly physical.Actual physical sexual contact.That includes a deep,lingering kiss or any kind of hugging that was much more than just a friend type of hug.Sexual type text messages or emails would definitely piss me off and not be tolerated,but I wouldn't consider it cheating.Just a big warning sign that he was likely on the way to cheating.

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areyouatroll
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:27 AM
Agreed.

Quoting mummy1990:

Being inappropriately intimate with another person, without a partners knowing or consent. Meaning, having an emotional affair, or sexual affair with another being. Porn and masturbation are excluded, unless they're paying for porn. Then I'd just think they're stupid because porn is free. 

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kaysha
by Ruby Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:28 AM


Quoting FullMoonFever:

For me it's strictly physical.Actual physical sexual contact.That includes a deep,lingering kiss or any kind of hugging that was much more than just a friend type of hug.Sexual type text messages or emails would definitely piss me off and not be tolerated,but I wouldn't consider it cheating.Just a big warning sign that he was likely on the way to cheating.

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RLT2
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:31 AM

Cheating is cheating. Give me a fucking break. You know it is if you have to ask

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 1:33 AM

what was he doing?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 1, 2012 at 2:27 AM

The reason I ask is because I posted before about him. At that time it was just naked pictures of his manager's wife and her coming to my house grinding on my husband topless while he played with her breast. I challenged him to see if there were no boundry how far would he go, so I said I didn't care what happened. He started sucking her nipples, cuddling with her, holding her, and she gave him a hand job. She also sends text saying "Love you baby" constantly. He replies with 'love you to'

Now since I said I didn't care, I can't get mad? To me he failed the trust test miserably. He swears up and down he loves me and only me, but now I just can't belive him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 1, 2012 at 2:28 AM
Doing anything that you have to hide or lie about.
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