It is no secret that I have been stressed and depressed since my family moved to Puerto Rico. I miss home and my family and friends. I have had bad falling outs with some friends here who I considered best friends and bc of that I have not been caring about my appearance at all. I have gained a lot of weight bc of my thyroid, I have been wearing sweats almost daily. No makeup...I really have let myself go. Well dh had a talk with me last night and basically told me he understands why I have been feeling this way and he wants to help me. He said there are a few things he is going to MAKE me do. He said we will both be getting in shape together, I will be going to a spa once a month to relax, I will start going out more and he will watch the kids, I will start getting my hair done, we will upgrade my wardrobe(I didnt ask foor any of this but I think hes tired of seeing me looking like a bum daily), and I will start taking classes again to finish my degree. He said he wants me to get my self esteem back up. I really got lucky when I married him. I never had someone care so much about me. My family life isnt anything I like to talk about bc it was crap. He made me upset bc he told me if something were to happen to him, he is not confident Id be able to pull it together and take charge. He is right. I dont know how to do basic things like repairs around the house, how to change a tire even. So he plans on teaching me all of these things too. I just wish I didnt have so many issues going on but thank God he is here for me.