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Sex surrogate

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However you spell it lol....

If you had problems in the bedroom would you use one of these?

Someone who will be there coaching you while you have sex.

We have no problem in that department but if we did...I think personally this wouldnt help me. There is no way I could take sex seriously or probably even do it.

Could you do this?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2012 at 10:44 AM
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lanceandhailey
by Platinum Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:08 PM

 What??!! No way LOL Read about it online

singlemom1208
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:09 PM
I'd be frwaking awesome at the that job!!!
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moniagee
by Platinum Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:10 PM
Nope. I have absolutely no problem telling him how to do it,.and when to do it. Same with him.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:10 PM

you are so dense.  why else would someone not WANT to have sex?  jesus fuck its not like someone woke up one day and went "gee, i dont think i am going to have sex for the next 6 months....oh well!"

people have legitimate reasons for having sexual dysfunction.  medication, medical condions, sexual abuse...that's not "people making it hard", that is a person having a specific struggle which most of the time the dont have control over.  who the hell are you to judge whether or not they brought it on themselves?

Quoting Momof5kids84:

It is unless you have medical issues or you're letting your mind get in the way. Hence, why I wrote, "people make it hard."

Quoting Anonymous:

sex is not always easy for every person.

Quoting Momof5kids84:

No. Absolutely not. Sex is easy. People make it hard. What happens between the sheets in my home stays between us.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:11 PM

No, we'd watch some porn or get one of those books so we can get some new positions going. As it stands we don't need any help getting freaky.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:12 PM
I'd rather someone come over for free and watch ;)
kyuteangl88
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:12 PM
Calm down.

Quoting Anonymous:

you are so dense.  why else would someone not WANT to have sex?  jesus fuck its not like someone woke up one day and went "gee, i dont think i am going to have sex for the next 6 months....oh well!"

people have legitimate reasons for having sexual dysfunction.  medication, medical condions, sexual abuse...that's not "people making it hard", that is a person having a specific struggle which most of the time the dont have control over.  who the hell are you to judge whether or not they brought it on themselves?

Quoting Momof5kids84:

It is unless you have medical issues or you're letting your mind get in the way. Hence, why I wrote, "people make it hard."



Quoting Anonymous:

sex is not always easy for every person.

Quoting Momof5kids84:

No. Absolutely not. Sex is easy. People make it hard. What happens between the sheets in my home stays between us.



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hollydaze1974
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:19 PM
Actually "sexual surrogacy" was originally an idea that was supposed to be an "aid" for sexual release for people with physical disabilities who a typical partner would shun, however, it is rarely looked into because the laws see it as a form of legal prostitution, although while working within the population, I could see why there would be a need for it.
Physiological needs live within every section of our population

As far as your question, I can't relax a lot of time when it is just me and DH. I can't imagine feeling more relaxed with someone watching us and barking orders! A sex therapist with an office who provides guidance and "homework" I can see being useful, but someone in my bedroom? Nah!
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wrensong
by Pagan Mother on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:27 PM

Um No thank you

Maemae2012
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 4:32 PM

I saw this on one of them strange sex shows. That would be really odd with someone in the room trying to coach you on sex. I don't think I could take it seriously either.

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