if your husband came to you and said he was going to have surgery to become a woman, would you stay or leave??

[brittney28]

I'd leave...


I'm watching a old episode of Grey's anatomy and that's what made me think of this question. Lol

[MommyLehr]

Stay. I e been wanting to be with a woman again for a while anyway! :-)

[bakerytreatz16]

Stay

[lovelychaos13]

rofl i love my husband, but i dont think i could picture how he could transition, hes  a supper hairy 6'6  350lbs of man, plus he loves sex with me far too much to do a gender re-assignment surgury

[nocalmegan]

I would leave. Not my thing :/

[ecerka]

I'd leave. I can't stay with someone that I wouldn't be attracted to any longer.I'd definitely still be friends and would have No problem with him taking care of our child.

[la-cosa-nostra]

I would discuss it with him and see what we both want. Either way, I'd support his decision, remain close and help him through it.

[Anonymous]

Id laugh. lol I dont think Id even take him seriously at first. But once I figured out he was serious Id try talking him out of it. If there was absolutly no convincing him then yes, sadly Id leave. I would try to get him some help and be his best friend, but there would be no sexual feelings left for him.

[AmaliaD]

well i can post an interesting reply to this one.     i am bi - attracted to Some men and Some women - and most people - like 75% of the human population i would never find attactive.    so i shoudl be ok with dh becoming a girl if anyone could be okay with that.   but i couldnt be - when you change genders - that totally ruins your nerves in your genitals,   they also cannot "make" a vag or a penis very well yet.   it woudl be gross.   i want someone who likes themselves for who they really are - i wouldnt support him doing that - and i wouldnt stay to watch it ... i am fine with gay parents - i have known awesome lesbo moms, i dont know any gay dads.    i have no issues with that - but being a cross dresser or especailly changed gender parent seems too strange to explain to little kids.   then again kids can be more accepting than adults.

[rockinmomto2]

I'd leave. That's not what I signed up for. He can be whoever he wants, but that doesn't mean that I will stay married to him.

[Mrs.Winchester]

I wouldn't leave my child with someone that mentally unstable.  And yes if my DH told me tomorrow that he wanted to have surgery to become a woman he would have to be having some kind of episode.  LOL

Quoting la-cosa-nostra:

Why full custody?

Quoting Mrs.Winchester:

I'd leave in a heartbeat and I would apply for full custody.