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Sex suragget (sp?) another post brought this to mind

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The other post was asking about a sex suragget being someone who would come in if you and your so/dh had issues in your sex life. They would watch you have sex and give you tips and input during the act.

My question is: a suragget could also be someone who comes in and does something for your so/dh that you won't/can't do. Like swallow, or anal, or whatever. Would you consider this?

I did this for my dh, I had a "friend" come over and have anal sex with my dh. He always talked about this and asked me to do it. I just wasn't into that. I had a solution! I gave him my "friend's a**" for his bday gift!!

At the time he acted like he enjoyed it, but has never asked for that again!

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 30, 2012 at 10:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:22 PM

Well hubby (current) some how ended up in a threesome when i was married to my ex. ( i had dated current hubby before). I was having problems in that marriage and needless to say that kind of ended it and no the guys were not together at all. I ended up with my second hubby a year after the divorce ( my ex was trying to do it with us and my current hubby says to him UMM No i respect her but you did not while you were married to her and i would not have agreed to it if i was not in love with her.) If i had it to do over again nope would not happen but loads of things would be different in my life to.

702girly
by Gold Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:22 PM

I actually know a lot about them.

It's prostitution. Escorts are prostitutes too.

I have no issue with prostitution but it is what it is.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

You don't know much about sex surrogates do you? And no,the legal way around prostituion is an "escort". The person pays for the escort to hang out with them, go on trips with them,ect. Usually people who are too busy for a relationship, but want someone to hang out and talk to. They SOMETIMES have sex, not always, but it isn't prostitutionbecause they are paying for the hanging out and not for the sex itself.l

Quoting 702girly:

Surrogates are prostitutes. They usually aren't even therapists, they just work with a therapist.

It's a loophole to get around the law.



LovelyCorrupt
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:24 PM
It's a hilarious statement that made laugh so hard I farted loudly


Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Congrats. Nothing like helping your husband be gay and smell like poo poo.



Anal does not make someone gay... That is a very ignorant statement.

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Danapopcorn
by AbbyCat on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:26 PM

To say they aren't therapist is ignorant. Sex surrogates help alot of people through their issues in many ways and they usually don't have sex with them.

Quoting 702girly:

I actually know a lot about them.

It's prostitution. Escorts are prostitutes too.

I have no issue with prostitution but it is what it is.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

You don't know much about sex surrogates do you? And no,the legal way around prostituion is an "escort". The person pays for the escort to hang out with them, go on trips with them,ect. Usually people who are too busy for a relationship, but want someone to hang out and talk to. They SOMETIMES have sex, not always, but it isn't prostitutionbecause they are paying for the hanging out and not for the sex itself.l

Quoting 702girly:

Surrogates are prostitutes. They usually aren't even therapists, they just work with a therapist.

It's a loophole to get around the law.




702girly
by Gold Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:28 PM

It's not ignorant. It's fact.

The vast majority of sex surrogates are NOT therapists. They have no degree, no certificate, absolutely no education to work as a therapist. 

This is why they work with a therapist. The therapist refers the patient to the surrogate for the sexual activity part of the therapy. Most therapists are not willing to have any kind of sexual relations with their parents for a variety of reasons.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

To say they aren't therapist is ignorant. Sex surrogates help alot of people through their issues in many ways and they usually don't have sex with them.

Quoting 702girly:

I actually know a lot about them.

It's prostitution. Escorts are prostitutes too.

I have no issue with prostitution but it is what it is.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

You don't know much about sex surrogates do you? And no,the legal way around prostituion is an "escort". The person pays for the escort to hang out with them, go on trips with them,ect. Usually people who are too busy for a relationship, but want someone to hang out and talk to. They SOMETIMES have sex, not always, but it isn't prostitutionbecause they are paying for the hanging out and not for the sex itself.l

Quoting 702girly:

Surrogates are prostitutes. They usually aren't even therapists, they just work with a therapist.

It's a loophole to get around the law.





Danapopcorn
by AbbyCat on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:32 PM

Prostitute= have sex with people for money 

sex surrogate= help couples through their sex problems. Have you ever seen one work? Majority of them do NOT have sex with their clients.

Quoting 702girly:

It's not ignorant. It's fact.

The vast majority of sex surrogates are NOT therapists. They have no degree, no certificate, absolutely no education to work as a therapist. 

This is why they work with a therapist. The therapist refers the patient to the surrogate for the sexual activity part of the therapy. Most therapists are not willing to have any kind of sexual relations with their parents for a variety of reasons.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

To say they aren't therapist is ignorant. Sex surrogates help alot of people through their issues in many ways and they usually don't have sex with them.

Quoting 702girly:

I actually know a lot about them.

It's prostitution. Escorts are prostitutes too.

I have no issue with prostitution but it is what it is.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

You don't know much about sex surrogates do you? And no,the legal way around prostituion is an "escort". The person pays for the escort to hang out with them, go on trips with them,ect. Usually people who are too busy for a relationship, but want someone to hang out and talk to. They SOMETIMES have sex, not always, but it isn't prostitutionbecause they are paying for the hanging out and not for the sex itself.l

Quoting 702girly:

Surrogates are prostitutes. They usually aren't even therapists, they just work with a therapist.

It's a loophole to get around the law.






702girly
by Gold Member on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:37 PM

I know several sex surrogates and prostitutes. I have a close friend who runs one of the Nevada brothels and I produce porn. Sex surrogates DO have sex with their clients. They aren't the psychologist or therapist so they don't have to worry about getting sued for having sex with a patient. 

Many sex surrogates are actually former prostitutes who enjoy the legal loophole that their new job provides them.

The job is the same. Both prostitutes and sex surrogates talk to their clients, ease their fears and anxiety and engage in sexual activities with them.

You're really wasting your time arguing this with me. I guarantee I know more about it than you do.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

Prostitute= have sex with people for money 

sex surrogate= help couples through their sex problems. Have you ever seen one work? Majority of them do NOT have sex with their clients.

Quoting 702girly:

It's not ignorant. It's fact.

The vast majority of sex surrogates are NOT therapists. They have no degree, no certificate, absolutely no education to work as a therapist. 

This is why they work with a therapist. The therapist refers the patient to the surrogate for the sexual activity part of the therapy. Most therapists are not willing to have any kind of sexual relations with their parents for a variety of reasons.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

To say they aren't therapist is ignorant. Sex surrogates help alot of people through their issues in many ways and they usually don't have sex with them.

Quoting 702girly:

I actually know a lot about them.

It's prostitution. Escorts are prostitutes too.

I have no issue with prostitution but it is what it is.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

You don't know much about sex surrogates do you? And no,the legal way around prostituion is an "escort". The person pays for the escort to hang out with them, go on trips with them,ect. Usually people who are too busy for a relationship, but want someone to hang out and talk to. They SOMETIMES have sex, not always, but it isn't prostitutionbecause they are paying for the hanging out and not for the sex itself.l

Quoting 702girly:

Surrogates are prostitutes. They usually aren't even therapists, they just work with a therapist.

It's a loophole to get around the law.







winkyloafer
by on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:38 PM
No, it doesn't.


Quoting Anonymous:

For a man, yup.



Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Congrats. Nothing like helping your husband be gay and smell like poo poo.




Anal does not make someone gay... That is a very ignorant statement.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:44 PM
You set it up and now you're not friends? Why? And how'd you get her to do it?!? Why the hell would she wanna take it in the a from your man??


Quoting Anonymous:

needless to say we aren't friends anymore, luckily dh and I got through that and with lots of talking and fighting and discussion, we ended up BACK together


Danapopcorn
by AbbyCat on Nov. 30, 2012 at 11:46 PM

And many sex surrogates do NOT. Many are there WHILE the couples have sex,many will touch the couples for relaxation and comfort purposes, but many do not have actual sex. Maybe the ones YOU know do, because you hang out with prostitutes. And yes,I as well have worked in the sex business as well. Though, not going to believe you produce porn since it's well known that you lie. 

Quoting 702girly:

I know several sex surrogates and prostitutes. I have a close friend who runs one of the Nevada brothels and I produce porn. Sex surrogates DO have sex with their clients. They aren't the psychologist or therapist so they don't have to worry about getting sued for having sex with a patient. 

Many sex surrogates are actually former prostitutes who enjoy the legal loophole that their new job provides them.

The job is the same. Both prostitutes and sex surrogates talk to their clients, ease their fears and anxiety and engage in sexual activities with them.

You're really wasting your time arguing this with me. I guarantee I know more about it than you do.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

Prostitute= have sex with people for money 

sex surrogate= help couples through their sex problems. Have you ever seen one work? Majority of them do NOT have sex with their clients.

Quoting 702girly:

It's not ignorant. It's fact.

The vast majority of sex surrogates are NOT therapists. They have no degree, no certificate, absolutely no education to work as a therapist. 

This is why they work with a therapist. The therapist refers the patient to the surrogate for the sexual activity part of the therapy. Most therapists are not willing to have any kind of sexual relations with their parents for a variety of reasons.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

To say they aren't therapist is ignorant. Sex surrogates help alot of people through their issues in many ways and they usually don't have sex with them.

Quoting 702girly:

I actually know a lot about them.

It's prostitution. Escorts are prostitutes too.

I have no issue with prostitution but it is what it is.

Quoting Danapopcorn:

You don't know much about sex surrogates do you? And no,the legal way around prostituion is an "escort". The person pays for the escort to hang out with them, go on trips with them,ect. Usually people who are too busy for a relationship, but want someone to hang out and talk to. They SOMETIMES have sex, not always, but it isn't prostitutionbecause they are paying for the hanging out and not for the sex itself.l

Quoting 702girly:

Surrogates are prostitutes. They usually aren't even therapists, they just work with a therapist.

It's a loophole to get around the law.








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