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am i selfish..

Posted by on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:34 AM
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Today is my baby shower and i am kind of upset... everyone in my family thinks im the black sheep and now they want to parade around me and gawk at my obese pregnant self... well i have one aunt who is telling everyone she is coming to the shower to get out of baby sitting but then messages me and tells me she won't be there because she wants to sit at home and have a drunk day... but yet plasters online she will be there.. now a few friends are backing out of coming last minute and everything just feels weird... i didn't even want a shower and now i feel like i will be disappointed when no one comes... i feel like a joke and i hate it... is it ok to feel this way
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alwayskk
by on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:35 AM

She wants to have a drunk day?

Damn, girl. She's the one missing out, not you.

*hugs*

wrensong
by Pagan Mother on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:37 AM

Yes it is ok for you to feel the way you do. I am sorry everyone is doing that to you..

jillbailey26
by on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:37 AM
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Well, you'll see who your real loved ones are.  Enjoy the food, the sweets and the presents you get.  Forget about the rest.  


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

Meghan6391
by Gold Member on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:38 AM
Im not a fan of this.side of the family


Quoting alwayskk:

She wants to have a drunk day?

Damn, girl. She's the one missing out, not you.

*hugs*


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november117
by Silver Member on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:39 AM
Try to make the best of it. :/ Sorry mama.
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MeghanPerez
by on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:39 AM
That's not selfish.

Just try to enjoy your day. The people who really love and care about you will be there.
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sweetz684
by on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:39 AM
Who's giving you the shower?
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Meghan6391
by Gold Member on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:54 AM
My sister and my mother


Quoting sweetz684:

Who's giving you the shower?

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sweetz684
by on Dec. 1, 2012 at 10:58 AM
Just try to enjoy your day with who is there. Obviously you have friends and family who care about you. Don't let the others ruin your day with the people who attend. People are just rude. And like someone else said any aunt that needs a drunk day doesn't need to be around you anyway.

Quoting Meghan6391:

My sister and my mother




Quoting sweetz684:

Who's giving you the shower?

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