JUST FOUND OUT: My sister & my DH ...... *** EDIT INFO ADDED!!!
& he begs me to forgive him!
Well Merry F'n Christmas to me :(
Just to answer some questions:
1. My nephew is 4 years old - she said she never knew who the father was. We have loved that little guy since day 1.
2. My sister is curretly 6 months pregnant - 2 months ago she came to me crying, claiming she had a secret to tell me but she was afraid it would devastate me - she was right. That secret crushed my soul, my world & my heart. I threw DH out & pretty much estranged myself from my sister.
- a couple days before Thanksgiving I allowed DH back in our home to be with the children : we spent the whole night talking ..... He cried, I cried, he begged for forgiveness & I tried to forgive (as horrible as it is - we have 3 children together & he is a great father so I wanted to badly to try as make it work)
WELL..... fast forward to this morning:: I'm in the kitchen cooking, cell rings, it's my sister (whom I haven't spoke to since she told me)- I figure I should answer, maybe she wants to apologize & besides it's the holiday season & in all honesty I just missed her - so I pick up.
This is how the conversation went down::
Veronica (my sis): Vanessa?
Vero: I know your still upset & you have every right to be but I can't be that person anymore...,
Me: what type of person is that?
Vero: the type to hold secrets in any longer
Me: okay ...... So what are you getting at?
Vero: (long pause)
Me: vero WHAT DO YOU WANT???
Vero: just to let you know that this baby is Mikes also & I don't want to lie about because I want him to be a daddy & be involved
My heart sank!!!
I hung up the phone & called DH
Told him congrats
He asked for what?
I said your going to be a daddy again
He said "baby your pregnant"?
I said not me - Vero
Told him I'll be gone when he gets home - I want all his shit out of the house before the kids & I get back & hung up.
He has been calling me nonstop jut blowing up my phone but I'm done!
I'd be a fool to stay longer.