Sad Putting up Christmas Tree alone. Will anyone ever love me again?
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My husband told me he loved me went to work came home packed a bag (he did this twice) and told me he dosen't love me and he wants a devorice. * months ago. I found out her cheated on me and he said he wanted a deivorce basially since our daughter was born (that time frame).
He has our Daughter tonight. I feel like no one will ever love me. He gets to like at his aunt and uncles like a carefree teen while I take care of our daughter. He has been mad at me, I don't get why he cheated and left me in the worst possible shape with a 5 year old.
He use to be a nice huabnd and dad, then he turned into a monster, my life feels like a dream. He just stopped caring, even about our daughter. I have done really good getting over it but some days it's hard when I see him. He treats me like crap. What did I do , I was happy one day and then a bomb was dropped on me. He tells be I better not dare play the victum, and I have had to call the cops on him.
Things will get better. Just give it time. My mom has been remarried for 10 years now.
Quoting Anonymous:
Buck up friend! Find a moment of happiness in grown up solitude. Do *you* love you? Start there, k?
*** Hugs *** You deserve to be treated better. You need to find a way to stop the negative self-talk and stop focusing on him and start focusing on making yourself and your daughter happy. If you need to, post some positive affirmations on your bathroom mirror where you can read them every morning. Say them out loud to yourself, until you believe them. It'll make a huge difference on your outlook and your life.
At what age should I tell my son dh is not his bio dad?