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He cites her weight as the reason for his cheating :-(

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I called my sister's best friend back today and she said that she caught her DH with a co-worker (why cheating men are too stupid to at least delete text msgs is beyond me).  He confessed and supposedly broke it off, but refuses to go to counseling.  She wants to try and make it work.  He cites the reason for cheating on her weight.  There are just no words right now.  She couldn't talk long, but what the heck to I say when she calls back?  I'm a heavier girl too, but it shows more on her because she's petite.  I feel it's still no excuse though.  He took vows.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 2, 2012 at 6:42 PM
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gonecrazi
by Silver Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:16 PM

 An excuse is an excuse..it is still wrong. 

CamMa
by Gold Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:16 PM
I'm just gonna go with you're a piece of shit for a woman. ;)

Quoting Anonymous:

haha, he took the same vows to love honor and obey me



He obeys very well :)

Quoting CamMa:

You're one of those pushover women who thinks her man's shit doesn't stink, aren't you? You do everything to please him, but he does nothing to please you? Yep, I can see it. ;)



Quoting Anonymous:

Tested at 141 so I'm not that bad :)

Quoting CamMa:

Wow...you are a moron.





Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.



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manda-nicole010
by on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:17 PM

:( Definitely not an excuse. 

EAzizM
by Erica on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:18 PM
Lame excuse to be a pig.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:18 PM

lol strike #2, you wanna go for #3?

Quoting CamMa:

I'm just gonna go with you're a piece of shit for a woman. ;)

Quoting Anonymous:

haha, he took the same vows to love honor and obey me



He obeys very well :)

Quoting CamMa:

You're one of those pushover women who thinks her man's shit doesn't stink, aren't you? You do everything to please him, but he does nothing to please you? Yep, I can see it. ;)



Quoting Anonymous:

Tested at 141 so I'm not that bad :)

Quoting CamMa:

Wow...you are a moron.





Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.




Jrogillio
by on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:19 PM
He's a (_*_)
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mamakat070812
by Gold Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:21 PM
Uh, wtf ever.
Im overweight and my hubby wants me to lose weight, he knows im trying hard. I just had a baby, but thats not a good reason to me! He loves me so much he would never cheat on me! Her dh is a fucking loser and can never be trusted again.
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PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:21 PM
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No excuse and the fact that he's blaming her weight shows what a low down dirty sleeze bag he really is.  Tell her to get a good divorce lawyer!

mamakat070812
by Gold Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:23 PM
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You think like a man, meaning you probably look like a man.
Just saying. Idgaf what you look like or how you think, but I sincerely hope your husband is fucking every girl he can get his hands on and I hope he looks you in they eyes and tells you...
its because your a total bitch.


Quoting Anonymous:

lol strike #2, you wanna go for #3?

Quoting CamMa:

I'm just gonna go with you're a piece of shit for a woman. ;)



Quoting Anonymous:

haha, he took the same vows to love honor and obey me



He obeys very well :)

Quoting CamMa:

You're one of those pushover women who thinks her man's shit doesn't stink, aren't you? You do everything to please him, but he does nothing to please you? Yep, I can see it. ;)





Quoting Anonymous:

Tested at 141 so I'm not that bad :)

Quoting CamMa:

Wow...you are a moron.







Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.





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Liyoness
by on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:24 PM

I guess it depends.

If it really is about her weight, then it's not really about her weight, but the fact that she let herself go and doesn't take care of herself.. If she's not taking care of herself, then she's probably not taking care of the relationship, either. I would expect if this is the case, that he tried to get her involved again..

But this isn't an 'excuse' to cheat.

In fact, just by the fact that he refuses to go to counseling says a lot about where his priorities are. He's trying to turn this around on her and make it her fault, when he's the one in the wrong here.

I don't really think that you can tell her anything except to make a decision - he's not willing to work on the relationship, plain and simple. She's going to have to think about that and what she wants to do with that information.

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