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He cites her weight as the reason for his cheating :-(

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I called my sister's best friend back today and she said that she caught her DH with a co-worker (why cheating men are too stupid to at least delete text msgs is beyond me).  He confessed and supposedly broke it off, but refuses to go to counseling.  She wants to try and make it work.  He cites the reason for cheating on her weight.  There are just no words right now.  She couldn't talk long, but what the heck to I say when she calls back?  I'm a heavier girl too, but it shows more on her because she's petite.  I feel it's still no excuse though.  He took vows.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 2, 2012 at 6:42 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:31 PM
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I don't recall my vows ever including the words "I swear to stay thin and sexified".


Quoting Liyoness:

What exactly was bitchy about her response?

Everyone picks and chooses at the vows they care most about. For some reason remaining faithful in terms of sex is the biggest deal to people, while they discard every other aspect of a marriage and the vows they took.

You're the one actually cutting someone else down, grasping at any straw you can in order to attempt to insult them, even wishing infidelity into her marriage, and you call the person you are quoting the bitch?


Quoting mamakat070812:

You think like a man, meaning you probably look like a man.

Just saying. Idgaf what you look like or how you think, but I sincerely hope your husband is fucking every girl he can get his hands on and I hope he looks you in they eyes and tells you...

its because your a total bitch.





Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.









mamakat070812
by Gold Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:33 PM
First of all it was a bitchy comment because she was insinutating that its ok for a husband to cheat if his wife is overweight. Who is to say his wife doesnt have a medical condition that makes her retain the weight, and what exactly does he consider "fat". In a marriage the love is supposed to be "unconditional" not "only if your not fat".. i mean what kind of twisted mentality do some of you bitches have? When you marry someone it should be based on true love and commitment not the persons weight. Its shitty that you think thats cool and if you were in her shoes i guarantee you that you would not feel the same way.


Quoting Liyoness:

What exactly was bitchy about her response?

Everyone picks and chooses at the vows they care most about. For some reason remaining faithful in terms of sex is the biggest deal to people, while they discard every other aspect of a marriage and the vows they took.

You're the one actually cutting someone else down, grasping at any straw you can in order to attempt to insult them, even wishing infidelity into her marriage, and you call the person you are quoting the bitch?


Quoting mamakat070812:

You think like a man, meaning you probably look like a man.

Just saying. Idgaf what you look like or how you think, but I sincerely hope your husband is fucking every girl he can get his hands on and I hope he looks you in they eyes and tells you...

its because your a total bitch.





Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.









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Cymbeline
by Platinum Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:33 PM
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Very few people use those antiquated vows anymore. The word, "obey" is virtually extinct in ceremonies. This is 2012.

Quoting Anonymous:

"honor and obey"

She didn't honor or obey

Quoting Anonymous:

What does that have to do with vows? stupid


Quoting Anonymous:


She didn't keep up the vows first


"to love, honor and obey"




She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.




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mamakat070812
by Gold Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:34 PM
Exactly. Its ok some women have the most fucked up mentalitys on marriage, it says alot about their mental stability and how they were raised.




Quoting Anonymous:

I don't recall my vows ever including the words "I swear to stay thin and sexified".




Quoting Liyoness:

What exactly was bitchy about her response?

Everyone picks and chooses at the vows they care most about. For some reason remaining faithful in terms of sex is the biggest deal to people, while they discard every other aspect of a marriage and the vows they took.

You're the one actually cutting someone else down, grasping at any straw you can in order to attempt to insult them, even wishing infidelity into her marriage, and you call the person you are quoting the bitch?



Quoting mamakat070812:

You think like a man, meaning you probably look like a man.


Just saying. Idgaf what you look like or how you think, but I sincerely hope your husband is fucking every girl he can get his hands on and I hope he looks you in they eyes and tells you...


its because your a total bitch.








Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.












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ihave1
by Platinum Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:35 PM

 He cheated b/c she is skinny? 

Grumpylilpixy
by on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:35 PM
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Sounds like he is a loser... NO AMOUNT of DICK SUCKING, ALL NIGHT SCREWING.... KEEPING YOUR WEIGHT DOWN, STAYING FIT AND KEEPING YOUR BELLY TIGHT IS GOING TO STOP A CHEATER FROM CHEATING! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:35 PM
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It's always a medical condition isn't it...



"It's that reecy cup in yo back pocket!"

Quoting mamakat070812:

First of all it was a bitchy comment because she was insinutating that its ok for a husband to cheat if his wife is overweight. Who is to say his wife doesnt have a medical condition that makes her retain the weight, and what exactly does he consider "fat". In a marriage the love is supposed to be "unconditional" not "only if your not fat".. i mean what kind of twisted mentality do some of you bitches have? When you marry someone it should be based on true love and commitment not the persons weight. Its shitty that you think thats cool and if you were in her shoes i guarantee you that you would not feel the same way.


Quoting Liyoness:

What exactly was bitchy about her response?

Everyone picks and chooses at the vows they care most about. For some reason remaining faithful in terms of sex is the biggest deal to people, while they discard every other aspect of a marriage and the vows they took.

You're the one actually cutting someone else down, grasping at any straw you can in order to attempt to insult them, even wishing infidelity into her marriage, and you call the person you are quoting the bitch?


Quoting mamakat070812:

You think like a man, meaning you probably look like a man.

Just saying. Idgaf what you look like or how you think, but I sincerely hope your husband is fucking every girl he can get his hands on and I hope he looks you in they eyes and tells you...

its because your a total bitch.





Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.










mamakat070812
by Gold Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:35 PM
We are all bold and beautiful on the internet hun.

You are one of those who make your life and relationship seem better than it really is.

Hiding behind the anon button only backs that up.

So ... who really strikes out here.?
.......you.


Quoting Anonymous:

OOOOh, struck out :)

Sorry, I was a model when I was younger and he's obsessed with me...

Let's have another batter up to the plate

Quoting mamakat070812:

You think like a man, meaning you probably look like a man.

Just saying. Idgaf what you look like or how you think, but I sincerely hope your husband is fucking every girl he can get his hands on and I hope he looks you in they eyes and tells you...

its because your a total bitch.





Quoting Anonymous:

lol strike #2, you wanna go for #3?

Quoting CamMa:

I'm just gonna go with you're a piece of shit for a woman. ;)





Quoting Anonymous:

haha, he took the same vows to love honor and obey me



He obeys very well :)

Quoting CamMa:

You're one of those pushover women who thinks her man's shit doesn't stink, aren't you? You do everything to please him, but he does nothing to please you? Yep, I can see it. ;)







Quoting Anonymous:

Tested at 141 so I'm not that bad :)

Quoting CamMa:

Wow...you are a moron.









Quoting Anonymous:

She didn't keep up the vows first

"to love, honor and obey"


She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.








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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:36 PM

Sorry, I was married in 1989, I'm old school

Quoting Cymbeline:

Very few people use those antiquated vows anymore. The word, "obey" is virtually extinct in ceremonies. This is 2012.

Quoting Anonymous:

"honor and obey"

She didn't honor or obey

Quoting Anonymous:

What does that have to do with vows? stupid


Quoting Anonymous:


She didn't keep up the vows first


"to love, honor and obey"




She didn't honor his wishes if she became that uncaring about her appearance.





grey7399
by Gold Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 8:36 PM

If my husband had said that shit to me, I would have had him put that shit down on the divorce statement so I could take the kids from him.  What a worthless fkr.

Quoting Anonymous:

My best friend's husband was caught last October. He claimed it was too stressful being a dad, and that his wife didn't keep the house clean enough, or take care of herself. She was pretty much the sole parent in the house before that, with 1 special needs son, and 1 extremely high active pre-schooler. On top of that, she had gone through with the lap band surgery, and was working out. She dropped almost 100 pounds, and was down to a size 7. The girl he cheated with was 10 years older, and wore a size 16.

They tried working on it- he claimed he wanted to, but what he wanted, was to buy time so he could save money and move out 2 weeks before Christmas.


People who cheat will ALWAYS blame the other person for making them do it. They never want to take personal responsibility for their own actions. :(


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