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My boyfriend and I have been dating 4 months. I have yet to be intimate with him and I wanted to plan to get a hotel on New Year's Eve.

I think that New Year's Eve would be such a special way to ring In the new year for the both of us.

Last night we were checking prices, and he made a joke about getting this super cheap hotel, one that looked like crap..

I mean really? Yeah it was a "joke", but like they say.. " there is always a little truth behind a "I'm just kidding"

He made me feel like crap.

I told him.. "You know what? Forget it then.. We'll just not do that"

He ignored what I said, and we continued talking about it..

I mean, I'm trying to make it special, but he's making me feel so stupid about it.

We have to get a hotel bc we both live with our parents at the moment, an we're def not going to be intimate in their homes, a I totally refuse to do it a car the first time..

I'm thinking of just forgetting the whole idea, and just making him wait even longer..

I don't just want to sleep with someone just because.. I'm not like that

How would you have felt?!
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 3, 2012 at 10:51 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:18 AM
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No, because you're freaking out over a joke, that's what makes you sound like a kid, plus neither one of you have independent dwellings, that also makes you sound like you don't quite have your shit together, plus you come on here and sulk instead of communicating with your boyfriend, that isn't helping your represented maturity level...

Quoting Anonymous:

Why? Because I don't just spread my legs?

Ad because he joked about getting a cheap hotel? Because I want our intimacy to be somewhat romantic?


Quoting owl0210:

I'm 33 and this reads like a teenager's diary... 


Quoting Anonymous:

How old are you?



Quoting owl0210:


 OMG how old are you???



 



Suzukigirl710
by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:18 AM

honestly I think your reading way too much into his joke.  No I wouldn't want to go to a sleezy hotel for our first rendezvous, but how much exactly do you want him to spend? I think you are forgetting  how different men are.  All he can think about is the actual sex taking place...not where it's at.  He can't read your mind if you are expecting this glam night.  Tell him how you would like for it to play out.  That way you are both satisfied..KWIM?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:18 AM
Maybe he thought you had a sence of humor you don't.
Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:18 AM
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How would I have felt?  I would have been amused by his joke.  And then booked us a nicer hotel.

If you have this many reservations about sleeping with this guy, maybe he's not right for you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:18 AM
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From reading this, and then judging the act that they both lie with their
Mommy and daddies I assume this chick is 16.


Quoting owl0210:

Well then I hope he takes you to the Ritz Carlton.  


Quoting Anonymous:

Why? Because I don't just spread my legs?

Ad because he joked about getting a cheap hotel? Because I want our intimacy to be somewhat romantic?



Quoting owl0210:


I'm 33 and this reads like a teenager's diary... 



Quoting Anonymous:

How old are you?




Quoting owl0210:



 OMG how old are you???




 



 


MamaRae85
by *you're on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:19 AM
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Hey, now, don't bash the truck stop motels! For some of us truck drivers wives, it's all we get when he's out on the road! LOL I'm totally kidding. Those things are nasty. I agree with what you're saying, though. She wants it to be special, and since it's a huge step, it's understandable that she's a bit sensitive about it.

Quoting msjaxon:

Weird sex hangups? How do you figure? Because she actually waited to get to know a man before having sex? Because she expects more than a pay by the hour, roadside, truck stop motel? If anyone has sex hangups its you...

Quoting HipLikeJunk:

lol weird sex hangups do not equal morals.

Quoting Anonymous:

No, I just have morals





Quoting HipLikeJunk:

Are you a virgin?





MrsErdos2011
by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:19 AM
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Why get a hotel like a one night stand or a hooker. Make a nice dinner at either your place or his and let the night take its own course. Don't plan it, it takes all the fun and passion out of it if the exact moment is planned.

Kool_Aide
by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:20 AM

You seem a bit spazzy!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:20 AM
Doubt it.
Why do you still live with mommy then? And why would you be dating someone who does too? You are seriously between 16 and 19.
I'm willing to be money on that.


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm not a teen. Lol




Quoting babyblue415:

 ever considered that the op might be a teen mom?



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:20 AM
Who said I was 33! I've said it over and over. I'm NOT 33


Quoting sfkdny:

I am going to try this once more.  this is MY personal opion, doesn't make it righ or wrong it just an opinion


at 33, I would have thouhgt you would have know by now, that sex, if with someone you are about is okay.  you are acting like a virgin on prom night when your date could not book you a fancy room at the mototn inn.  that is how you come accross, as least to me


 


Anonymous:

OMG. We are not on the same page. I fuck and make love. What's the problem?? Lol




Quoting sfkdny:


oh, this sounds like a sappy after school special.  do you want to screw him or not (or do you only "make love".....puke!!!!!)



 I'm worth far more than that.




Quoting rennez:

I don't think you're ready to be having srx if you're really pissed off at his obvious like of a response



 





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