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Don't Want People To Know...

Anonymous
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I have scrimped and saved and I finally have enough money to get a Mommy Makeover, you know, boob job, tummy tuck, liposuction?  I don't want my kids or anyone else except my husband to know about it though.  My family and friends would judge me for spending money on something like that.  I want the surgery, how can I hide it?

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:06 PM
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Fairegirl33
by Gold Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:06 PM

 walk about with a body bag on ?

rockinmomnwife
by Silver Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:07 PM

Maybe don't go too big on the boobs? As for the lipo...it depends on how much you need.

YzmaRocks
by Platinum Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:07 PM
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So you want to improve your body without anyone noticing? May I ask, what is the point of getting surgery at all?
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by Platinum Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM
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Don't give a second thought to what other people think. It's YOUR money, YOUR body, YOUR decision.

Fuck 'em if they don't like it.
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ffpm10
by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM
Good luck..... You do realize the recovery is pretty intense, right?
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jillbailey26
by Jill on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM

Isn't this something they would notice?  You disappearing for surgery and recovery, then your boobs, tummy and wherever you liposuction would look different.  

If you're ashamed to do it, don't do it.  If not, who cares what your so-called friends think.


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

CorpCityGrl
by Platinum Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM

Tell everyone you are "going away" while you are on recovery.  Since you'll be recovering for a few weeks, can you convalesce somewher else?  That's how I would try to do it if I wanted to keep it a secret.

UgtaBkdnMe
by on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM

You can't hide it, and people who try to look like idiots.

owl0210
by Emerald Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM
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 You're an adult who cares what they think?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:08 PM


Quoting YzmaRocks:

So you want to improve your body without anyone noticing? May I ask, what is the point of getting surgery at all?

It's for me, to feel better about myself.

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