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Posted by Anonymous

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Been dating a guy for about a week. He keeps asking me what I want for Christmas. Holy crap! What do you ask for from some one you've only been dating a week? I said thing. He told me that wasn't good enough so I said a $10 dvd. Said that still wasn't good enough. What do I say?

*Edit*
Ladies I do NOT want to scare him off and he is not a creeper. We've known each other for years, casually, started talking and building a friendship over the last few years, and just now started dating. He's a sweetheart of a guy.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 3, 2012 at 8:31 PM

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LivysMama

Silver Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:40 AM

Okay, so you've known him for years but you've just started dating...that makes it different. Ask him to take you somewhere for dinner or dancing or to a movie you've been dying to see and consider that your gift.

by Anonymous on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:41 AM

Tell him for him to cook you dinner!!

by Anonymous on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:42 AM

Have him take you on a date, movie & dinner or something then surprise him with some sexy lingerie when it's all done with.

RMB2011

Gold Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:43 AM

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Lol

Quoting LivysMama:

Hey! Maybe he lost a lot of good men out there!
:D
Quoting RMB2011:

Looks like you have a level 5 clingon going on there.

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VintageWife

on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:46 AM

Tell him a romantic date. That way it isn't materialistic but you share an intimate evening together :)

rawrmommysaurus

Silver Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:48 AM

Maybe ask him for a gift certificate to a spa, or hair dresser.

rawrmommysaurus

Silver Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 12:53 AM

Or a nice romantic dinner out.

by Anonymous on Dec. 4, 2012 at 3:09 AM

Then ask for earrings or something.

Quoting Anonymous:

I've known him forever, but only just started dating.

Quoting Anonymous:

How long have you known him?

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 4, 2012 at 10:45 AM

Oh lord no! His sister told me he tried to cook once and almost burnt the house down. Lol.

Quoting Anonymous:

Tell him for him to cook you dinner!!

eesmommy

Silver Member on Dec. 4, 2012 at 10:48 AM

Tell him to buy you what he wants to give you. Explain that the relationship is new and you don't want to seem .... greedy?.... so he should choose something he really wants you to have.
You DO know you have to get HIM something.g more than gloves ... but less intimate than underwear;) lol.