Ok, I have a friend that was raped, after the rape, she became paranoid about always knowing where the guy was. (She thought he was a friend, and no she didn't report it, she was embaressed and didn't even tell a soul until 4 months later)She stalks his facebook, twitter, and before she leaves she checks them and if he says he has been there she refuses to go. She has even gone as far as to private message girls that show interested in him on his fb and warn them, which has backed fired, and I have at least got her to stop that. We ran into the guy at the mall and she had a freaked out panic attacked. I am trying to get her to see a shrink, and to tell her not to check on him so much. IDK
Now another friend that was raped by a stranger, said at the trial she couldn't even look at him, to look at the guy made her sick. So she is saying the first friend wasn't raped but is obsessed with the guy and because he isn't interested she is making this story up.
I think people react differently to rape, and that her reaction is natural for HER. And friend B reaction was NORMAL for HER. What do you think?