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I Should Be More Sad? *Abortion Related* |UPDATE|

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

I'm not positive that I am pregnant.

However, I have a gut feeling I may be, and after days of freaking out over the fact, I have decided, that if i am, I will be ending the pregnancy.
I have never, ever believed in abortion. I don't have a problem with someone else having one, but for me, it was the biggest no no.

Amazing how life changes your views.

I am aware that adoption is available, but the situation I'm in means that no, it is not an option that I will entertain. I could keep the baby, I'm sure, but no, I refuse that option too. I am aware of the bashing that is coming. Why open your legs if you don't want a baby etc etc, and I'm waiting for it. I already have a 1yr old daughter, who I'm in the middle of a custody battle with her dad over. I also met the love of my life, and as selfish as it sounds; I refuse to fuck it up with him.

I'm not asking for advice, I just needed to get it out. I guess, the only thing I don't understand, is how calm about the whole thing I am. I thought I'd be crying all the time, or freaking out; but really, if I'm pregnant, then it is an abortion, and for some reason I feel no pain about that...

 

I'm totally and completely not pregnant, thank god for that.

My man said he would have supported me even if I was, but I'm just glad we didn't have to worry about that eventuality.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 3, 2012 at 11:19 PM
Replies (31-40):
hiswifey01
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:53 PM

I do not believe in ending the pregnancy. You laid there and got pregnant you should deal with the consequences. If not carry the pregnancy to full term and let someone else adopt the baby. There are so many woman out there who can not have babies and you want to end it. That is rude.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 16 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:53 PM
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You aren't "freaking out" because you are confident in your decision and have no doubts. That's a good thing, it means that you're making the right choice for your body and your life. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:54 PM
How many kids have you adpoted so far ?


Quoting Anonymous:

Why an abortion, you know there is such a thing as adoption and what about your bf? what would he think if you got one and found out that you didn't confide in him? Why murder a child when they weren't the ones being selfish?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 17 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:54 PM

Well right now you feel  calm, because you have made up your mind what your going to do, so you aren't worried and stressed about it. I think the sadness will hit you the day you go to have the abortion, and the days following.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 14 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:56 PM
There are so many 7-15 year old boys and girls in foster homes that want somebody to give them a family .are you willing to adpot them ?


Quoting hiswifey01:

I do not believe in ending the pregnancy. You laid there and got pregnant you should deal with the consequences. If not carry the pregnancy to full term and let someone else adopt the baby. There are so many woman out there who can not have babies and you want to end it. That is rude.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 18 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:56 PM
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So your choosing a man over your child ? Way to go OP , maybe your first child's father is doing the right thing by fighting you for custody.
beethann
by Platinum Member on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:57 PM

its his choice too!

Starryeyez_01
by on Dec. 5, 2012 at 11:00 PM
Your not feeling sad about it yet maybe cuz your not sure if your pregnant or no..? But once you know your pregnant it might be a different story...go take a pregnancy test
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 5, 2012 at 11:02 PM


Quoting hiswifey01:

I do not believe in ending the pregnancy. You laid there and got pregnant you should deal with the consequences. If not carry the pregnancy to full term and let someone else adopt the baby. There are so many woman out there who can not have babies and you want to end it. That is rude.


Well perhaps they should adopt the thousands of other children in foster homes.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 19 on Dec. 5, 2012 at 11:03 PM



Quoting maybebaby83:

I'm pro choice.. Do what you NEED to do, but remember you have to live with your choices forever.. No matter what they are.


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