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So I think it will turn into a fight!!!! and he knows MMA Edit in red

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So I am about 6 (8 if you go by lmp) weeks pregnant, I barely know the guy (we shall him C) and the little bit of time that we did share was great. Well once I told C that I was late it all changed he turned into a total dickhead, and started ignoring my text or saying that I'm lying to him. Well I decided to give him a few days to clear his head haven't talked to C in four days so I texted him tonight. Yeah it was 1 am but if your awake enough to play on FB your awake enough to answer a text.

All I asked was when he wanted to sit down and talk about things. C says Idk why? I say well I figure its better sooner than later but I'm about to to say fuck it and not even try cuz I see it wont change even when the shit does hit the table. C says tom nite? I didn't respond I was trying too think of an excuse to get out the house (don't ask long story). 4 minutes later he texted back Idk ig since you wanna snap. Goodnite. Did I snap? I don't think I did. 

Idk I want too talk to him about this but idk if its a good idea too I say stupid things when I'm mad and my mouth has gotten me into some terrible fights. I just don't want him to snap and try hurt me.

So after him texting me all day yesterday I decided to go over there and talk well that's not what he wanted at all. All he wanted was some p*ssy and some head smh I can't believe this. So you don't want to talk about our child or how I'm  most likely going to be on the street with a 2 year old and being 2 months pregnant fine but don't soup my head up to talk and then you just talk about getting your rocks off really.. The worst part is that I gave in to it too. Why do I gotta fall for this shit really.

So for those of you looking for the truth f it I'll explain yes I'm still living at home, and yes I am engaged things have been bad for 3 years since I was about 3mths preggo with our son. We fight all the time and get snippy with each other a lot. We don't have any time for each other being when he is home his is either sleeping or playing games on the computer. Our breaking up has been a long time coming and I haven't done it because financially I can't do it by myself my cc bills are so high from when our son was in the hospital that I just cant afford it.

Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 4, 2012 at 4:17 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 6, 2012 at 10:46 AM
I am 24. But he has only ignored me since I told him that I was late. He's scared he's had 2 mcs in the past 2 yrs so I would be scared too. And then he thinks that there is a possibility that this child is my fiances but there is no way that its his


Quoting Anonymous:

 You must be really young or really desperate to stay in a relationship with this guy.  He treats you like shit and ignores you and you're still with him.  Maybe it's called stupidity, IDK.


AdensMommy1107
by Emerald Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 10:49 AM
Da fauq did I just read
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 6, 2012 at 10:52 AM
I know I'm going to get bashed for this(not by you well maybe but oh well) but idc. I am going to keep the baby, and I want to try to be with C, I honestly wanted a relationship with him before I found out I was pregnant. I am planned on tellin my s\o Saturday I'm going to wait til his off days so he can figure out where to go from there.


Quoting Suzukigirl710:

without knowing the whole story, I will give you the best advice I have:  What is it that you actually want from him (C)?  Is your question to him, what to do about the baby? ie. abortion...adoption...keep it? Since you are in another relationship, perhaps you need to tell your SO what happened and that your pregnant.  If your not in another relationship, I ask again, what do you actually want from this new (C) guy? If it's just money, then wait till the baby is born and file the papers. 

I am sorry that you are in this situation.  HOWEVER, you made your bed and now you have to lay in it.  You need to take control of your own life and the little boy's life you mentioned.  Stop waiting for the crappy guys in your life to make your decisions for you.  Put your big girl panties on, and come clean about everything and take it from there.  That's eventually what's going to happen anyway, might as well take control of it now and make wise decisions, rather than wait until shit goes South then make rash decisions.  This is all typed with heart felt words, definitely not meant to bash you.


Suzukigirl710
by on Dec. 6, 2012 at 3:09 PM

well now you have a plan.  Just follow it through and do the best you can by your kids.  Good luck!

Quoting Anonymous:

I know I'm going to get bashed for this(not by you well maybe but oh well) but idc. I am going to keep the baby, and I want to try to be with C, I honestly wanted a relationship with him before I found out I was pregnant. I am planned on tellin my s\o Saturday I'm going to wait til his off days so he can figure out where to go from there.


Quoting Suzukigirl710:

without knowing the whole story, I will give you the best advice I have:  What is it that you actually want from him (C)?  Is your question to him, what to do about the baby? ie. abortion...adoption...keep it? Since you are in another relationship, perhaps you need to tell your SO what happened and that your pregnant.  If your not in another relationship, I ask again, what do you actually want from this new (C) guy? If it's just money, then wait till the baby is born and file the papers. 

I am sorry that you are in this situation.  HOWEVER, you made your bed and now you have to lay in it.  You need to take control of your own life and the little boy's life you mentioned.  Stop waiting for the crappy guys in your life to make your decisions for you.  Put your big girl panties on, and come clean about everything and take it from there.  That's eventually what's going to happen anyway, might as well take control of it now and make wise decisions, rather than wait until shit goes South then make rash decisions.  This is all typed with heart felt words, definitely not meant to bash you.



Litlmama87
by Platinum Member on Dec. 6, 2012 at 3:13 PM
Fuckery.

Pure fuckery.

Congrats (on jeopardizing your two year olds living situation for. Guy who could give two fucks less about you, & doesn't give a damn you don't have a pot to piss in)!!!!!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 6, 2012 at 3:24 PM
When I told him that I most likely would be kicked out my house he told me I atleast will not be on the street. And he doesn't know this but I do have 4 other houses I can move into my grandfather died 2 years ago and had 4 houses. And 3 of them have to go in my name so.... its just the fact that imma have to pay the bills and working as little as I do it will be hard but I can figure something out. 2 of the houses are out in bfe but I have a reliable vehicle and the bills stay low out there so if my devout Cathlic aunt wants to throw me out that's cool.


Quoting Litlmama87:

Fuckery.



Pure fuckery.



Congrats (on jeopardizing your two year olds living situation for. Guy who could give two fucks less about you, & doesn't give a damn you don't have a pot to piss in)!!!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 6, 2012 at 3:25 PM
Thank you honey


Quoting Suzukigirl710:

well now you have a plan.  Just follow it through and do the best you can by your kids.  Good luck!


Quoting Anonymous:

I know I'm going to get bashed for this(not by you well maybe but oh well) but idc. I am going to keep the baby, and I want to try to be with C, I honestly wanted a relationship with him before I found out I was pregnant. I am planned on tellin my s\o Saturday I'm going to wait til his off days so he can figure out where to go from there.





Quoting Suzukigirl710:

without knowing the whole story, I will give you the best advice I have:  What is it that you actually want from him (C)?  Is your question to him, what to do about the baby? ie. abortion...adoption...keep it? Since you are in another relationship, perhaps you need to tell your SO what happened and that your pregnant.  If your not in another relationship, I ask again, what do you actually want from this new (C) guy? If it's just money, then wait till the baby is born and file the papers. 

I am sorry that you are in this situation.  HOWEVER, you made your bed and now you have to lay in it.  You need to take control of your own life and the little boy's life you mentioned.  Stop waiting for the crappy guys in your life to make your decisions for you.  Put your big girl panties on, and come clean about everything and take it from there.  That's eventually what's going to happen anyway, might as well take control of it now and make wise decisions, rather than wait until shit goes South then make rash decisions.  This is all typed with heart felt words, definitely not meant to bash you.





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