I think my dh likes someone else UPDATE!!

[Anonymous]

Everyday when he gets home it's j did this and j said that!! And it's all day and all night. She's all I hear about. And anytime he has a problem he goes to her!! Wtf? They've only been working together for maybe three months.











**I have talked to him. He tells me I'm just being jealous that he only talks to her because he works with her. But he doesn't talk about his other coworkers nearly as much not even the ones he works closely with. I can't do anything without him bringing her up. I don't think he's cheating but I do think he likes her and I don't know what to do. He can't change his hours or anything like that. And I can't make him quit lol. So idk.**





*** Thank you ladies for all of your advice. I will try to talk to him again and see his reaction and try to get him to understand why I am so uncomfortable. I will also make sure I meet her. Thanks again for all of your advice***



**** I went to dh's work today for his lunch break but I didn't get to meet her until right before I left. She was kinda pretty but didn't look anything like me. I'm having dh invite her over for dinner one night so I can actually meet her. I also talked to him again last night. He said his usual she's just someone I work with. So I guess we'll see what happens.****

[Anonymous]

I would not be ok with that , I'm going with the. big red flag. However don't over react my dh talks about his co workers non stop, THANK GOD THEIR MEN

[Anonymous]

Have u said something to him??? My hubby does that when they get a new co-worker so im used to it. One time I was kind of like umm but after I told him about it he was like "OH NO she could be my mom, I just think she is very funny"... After meeting her I knew what he meant...

[melissa916]

Ask him.

[lauren.m]

Seems like he may like her but if he were cheating i dont think hed say much about her hed keep it a secret

[Anonymous]

Yep, sounds like it. My dad pulled that with my mom. He talked about her all the time, and when my mom was was like "You sure do seem to talk about her a lot." he would get defensive and say "I'm around her at work, and she's just someone I talk to!" 

The ugly truth showed it's face shortly after. He was infatuated with her, and just thought she was oh, so great, fun, funny, sexy, etc. etc. and was wanting to leave my mom for her. It all backfired. 

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

No I've never met her. I was supposed to go to his work for the first time today and have lunch with him but dd has a fever so we have to wait.

Quoting Krystle1216:

Have you ever met her? Maybe you should visit the office to see what all the fuss is about

[punchnpie]

Wow not cool.. I ask straight out. "Do you like her or something. You talk an aweful lot about her?" wait for an answer keep a fly swatter handy for the imaginary fly that will keep landing on his face. :)

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

That's what my dh says :( it's always I just work with her. Or stop being so jealous.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yep, sounds like it. My dad pulled that with my mom. He talked about her all the time, and when my mom was was like "You sure do seem to talk about her a lot." he would get defensive and say "I'm around her at work, and she's just someone I talk to!" 

The ugly truth showed it's face shortly after. He was infatuated with her, and just thought she was oh, so great, fun, funny, sexy, etc. etc. and was wanting to leave my mom for her. It all backfired. 

[Angela6296]

more detail please.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I have asked him and he always says no he just works with her but I like the fly swatted idea.

Quoting punchnpie:

Wow not cool.. I ask straight out. "Do you like her or something. You talk an aweful lot about her?" wait for an answer keep a fly swatter handy for the imaginary fly that will keep landing on his face. :)