my friend was freaking out 2 weeks ago, she has mirena and missed her period but her body felt "different" so she took 6 pregnancy tests to be sure, all were positive. so she calls her df at work and tells him, he gets home as fast as he could, she shows him all the tests and he asks me to leave so they could talk so i leave. i get a call a little later saying they are going to the urgent care to get her mirena removed, i sit worried for a little while and get a call back and say shes 6 weeks pregnant and they removed the mirena....then i asked the question that had to be asked, what are they going to do keep it, adopt it out,or you know.....she said they didnt know yet and theyd call me back about it later.
i get on facebook to see if they have updated anything and all i see is "i know what i have to do :'(" i get a call a few minutes after i see the status saying shes going to abort....in her situation i understand, they just moved out her df has a job at bevmo and shes looking for one and can barely afford their one baby as it is. so skip to last wednesday she goes through with it and then all of a sudden her facebook blew up with things like "baby killer" "murderer" ect. all of these people were her df's friends, and then she looks at her df's facebook and his status from the day she aborted was "she just killed my kid because we couldnt afford it, we cant afford our first one is she going to kill that one to?"
then over this past weekend they all went to his parents house and his mom kicked her out and told her never to come back, she tried to get her df to go home with her and he refused he said "if i wanted a girl that would kill my children i would have stayed with my ex, get the fuck out of my moms house" so she left and came here with all of her things and all of her ds's things. she broke down the only reason she'd get out of bed is to feed her ds
what kind of guy does that? seriously she had one of his kids and thinking of the situation she aborted this one to keep them off of welfare and keep them from being homeless....shes not broken about the abortion,shes broken about the way her df (who agreed it was best) is treating her
is there anything i could say to her to make her feel better or just let her cope with it and help her with her ds until shes better?
before everyone says the exact same thing i was there when he agreed it would be best for her to abort so yes he agreed to it and had no objections